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Outcome of extreme porn case

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Rachel2022

Member since
August 2022

119 posts

Posted Thu December 7, 2023 1:50pmReport post

Today I can finally write the words I have longed to since 10th of May 2021. It's all over.

My husband had been charged with extreme porn. We had the Knock in May 2021 and the devices did not come back until November 2022 with his first court appearance in December 2022. We have been going back and forward to court since then but today was the last appearance. At the moment we are in absolute shock however, we have had the best possible outcome we could have hoped for.

my husband has not been placed on the sex offenders register. Our KC read sentencing guidelines in the summer of this year the options to do with the register and argued the case successfully to the judge. The judge took his time and listened and took further guidance and today he sentenced my husband to 120 hours of non paid work. He apologised to my husband for the length of time everything has taken and even the crown agreed that they were not looking for him to be placed on the register.



I know that I am rabling on here but most importantly I want to say thank you to each and every one of you. The support you have offered me, the level of knowledge and information you have provided and the way you have lifted me up at times of great distress I wouldn't have gotten through this without you all. Your level of strength and resilience is remarkable. Thank you thank you thank you.



I often imaged how we would react if we had a good outcome but we are just sitting here in a state of shock hopefully that will wear off soon. Tomorrow is a new beginning and the rest of our lives and I for one are very much looking forward to it xxxxx

Smile through tears

Member since
September 2021

2551 posts

Posted Thu December 7, 2023 2:42pmReport post

So very happy for you - a big deep breath now - you can move forward xxxxxxx

rainyday52

Member since
April 2023

447 posts

Posted Thu December 7, 2023 4:37pmReport post

That's wonderful news and I wish you all the very best for the future. You have a bright one now and it must feel fabulous.

Just take care in these early days of being 'normal' again and be kind to yourselves. You have a new journey starting today and this time it's one where the sun shines!!!

xxxx

K4

Member since
October 2022

611 posts

Posted Thu December 7, 2023 4:48pmReport post

Oh yay, I hope the relief sinks in and you are able to relax and enjoy a smashing Christmas xx

Caggie164

Member since
October 2023

274 posts

Posted Thu December 7, 2023 4:50pmReport post

What an amazing outcome for you :)

Pippin

Member since
May 2023

44 posts

Posted Thu December 7, 2023 5:52pmReport post

Great news, best of luck for you both moving forward!

Inthemoment

Member since
February 2023

358 posts

Posted Thu December 7, 2023 5:58pmReport post

Huge congratulations on your wonderful news!!!

SH9231

Member since
August 2023

52 posts

Posted Thu December 7, 2023 9:07pmReport post

That's incredible news, you must both be feeling amazing! All the best for the future x

Grapefruit

Member since
August 2023

37 posts

Posted Thu December 7, 2023 9:19pmReport post

Fantastic news! Congratulations, I am so pleased for you. That horrendous journey is now over. You both deserve the best Christmas break, and drink. Enjoy them both and the very best of luck for your future X

Just want an end to it

Member since
October 2023

212 posts

Posted Thu December 7, 2023 9:56pmReport post

Fantastic, I'm so glad you got the best outcome.... and breath..

Inturmoil1974

Member since
November 2022

276 posts

Posted Thu December 7, 2023 10:11pmReport post

Amazing outcome ????

Runawaygirl

Member since
March 2023

85 posts

Posted Fri December 8, 2023 10:06amReport post

Great news! I'm so pleased for you. I can't imagine the relief you must both be feeling after such a long wait.

Can I ask a couple a questions please? Was your OH arrested for IIOC or was it always EP?

Can you say how many images there were?

Sorry if this is too intruisive. Obviously feel free to ignore! x

Clarkestaff

Member since
September 2022

120 posts

Posted Fri December 8, 2023 11:18amReport post

Fantastic news Rachel,

I'm glad this is over before Christmas and that you got a favourable result in court.

Hope you can both move forward in your lives and put this dreadful journey behind you x

BaffledB

Member since
July 2021

876 posts

Posted Fri December 8, 2023 2:42pmReport post

This is fantastic! Great to see common sense being used for one. Xxxx

Seaside

Member since
July 2022

560 posts

Posted Fri December 8, 2023 2:43pmReport post

This is brilliant news