So sorry to tell you this (TW)
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I am so sorry to tell you about the very sudden ending to our journey. Unbeknown to me my husband attended a trial date I knew nothing about (I believe a Goodyear hearing) I believe he was offered a 1 year suspended sentence for communication.
Had I been there I would have urged him to take it, it would have been sorted before Xmas. And we could move forward.
Unfortunately he could not deal with the stress, and shame and humiliation. He was convinced he could argue his innocence but did not have the strength. Instead he took his own life.
Please take your loved ones and tell them there is hope, there is a future. One that has now been taken away for me. There are lots of stories here of positive futures, I wish he had seen them. So many stories of hope.
He had kept so much from me, to shield me. Had I know I would have supported him, I would have been there. I wish you all love and happiness over the Christmas period. x
Had I been there I would have urged him to take it, it would have been sorted before Xmas. And we could move forward.
Unfortunately he could not deal with the stress, and shame and humiliation. He was convinced he could argue his innocence but did not have the strength. Instead he took his own life.
Please take your loved ones and tell them there is hope, there is a future. One that has now been taken away for me. There are lots of stories here of positive futures, I wish he had seen them. So many stories of hope.
He had kept so much from me, to shield me. Had I know I would have supported him, I would have been there. I wish you all love and happiness over the Christmas period. x
Pipin, I'm so, so terribly sorry. Sending you lots of love at this extremely emotional time. xxxx
Oh Pippin, I am so so sorry. My heart breaks for you. I really don't have any words that will help you at this devestating time but I wanted to reach out to you and let you know that my thoughts are with you.
Pippin
I'm so so sorry to read this tragic news. Sending condolenscences and love xx
I'm so so sorry to read this tragic news. Sending condolenscences and love xx
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I'm so sorry to hear this. It breaks my heart every time I hear it. I hope he is finally at peace and I send you lots of strength at this awful time xx
Pippin,
I'm so very sorry for your loss. Sending strength to you and so much love. Absolutely heartbreaking xxx
I'm so very sorry for your loss. Sending strength to you and so much love. Absolutely heartbreaking xxx
So so sorry Pippin - this is heartbreaking....
I'm so sorry for your loss pippin , x
This is so heartbreaking I'm sorry this has happened x
So sorry to read this. There are no words but I offer my deepest sympathy to you. I hope you have someone to reach out to for support. Thinking of you xxx
I'm so sorry to read this. Sending you strength x
Thank you so all much x
Oh Pippin I am so so sorry I have no words but am sending you so much love xxx
I'm so so sorry for your loss. Sending you hugs.
So sorry to hear heart go out to you .One big worry for all us the person state of mind inside prison.
I'm so sorry he felt this was his only option and I'm so sorry you are living with his loss. Sending strength & love xx
I'm so sorry Pippin, I'm heartbroken for you and sending all my love and care to you tonight. Our people are in the highest risk group for suicide and there's so little support. So much love from me xxx
Sending you all my love and support, Pippin xxxx
Pippin
So very sorry to hear your news. Sending you love and strength xx
So very sorry to hear your news. Sending you love and strength xx
So terribly sorry x
Im so sorry to hear this. Sending you so much love xx
Just sending my deepest sadness to you, such a wasteful tragedy. Your poor husband. Strength for the journey ahead as you miss him and love him. Hoping you have good people gathered round you now xxxx
Pippin
I am truly so so sorry heartbreaking sending so much love and strength to you xx
I am truly so so sorry heartbreaking sending so much love and strength to you xx
Pippin, I am so so sorry, my deepest condolences to you.
Such heartbreaking news. Sending you love X
Such heartbreaking news. Sending you love X
This is so sad and tragic Pippin, my heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Try and focus on the good times and memories you shared. Thank you for sharing and I sincerely wish you peace at Christmas.
katie xxxx
katie xxxx
So so sorry to read this and especially at this time of year. Pippin I hope you have plenty of support around you, I send you and your husband's family my condolences x
I am so sorry for your loss. Sending hugs x
Pippin I am so desperately sorry to hear this and that there is another tragic outcome to this situation. Sending love and condolences to you and your family xx
I am desperately sorry to read this my thoughts are with you all xx
Oh Pippin, I am so incredibly sorry and saddened to hear this. Sending you all so much love and compassion. Xxx
Sending love
I'm so sorry
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I'm so sorry
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Thank you all for your support and love. I have found this forum such a support. Sadly my husband had not found the same support and compassion and information as I had. Maybe if he had found the same, he may have realised there was a light at the end of the tunnel and there may have been a different outcome. X
I am so sorry to hear this Pippin. Sending you so much love and my thoughts are with you x
Pippin,
I am so truly sorry for your loss. Sending you all my love xxx
I am so truly sorry for your loss. Sending you all my love xxx
I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending you hugs
Sending you lots of love, care and compassion for tomorrow Pippin and Wee Witch. Xxx
Pippin and Weewitch. You have both been in my thoughts today xx
There are no words to say how sorry I am. This is my biggest biggest fear through this journey. Sending you lots of hugs and prayers. And any bit of my strength I have left I'm passing over to you x
Oh Pippin, there are no words to express the sadness and loss. One of the hardest lessons for all of us is that we can't save people from themselves. Grab hold of those nearest and dearest to you and embrace them with all your heart and soul. Sadly your husband's psychological pain is now over. I truly hope you have lots of family and friends to accompany you on this new journey. We're here for you if you need us.
Thank you all for your kind words and support, I am sure this situation was entirely preventable, this did not have to be the end of our journey.
He was treated shockingly by the police and social services without any thought or care about his wellbeing, or the wellbeing of his children who will suffer for the rest of their lives the loss of their father.
Please keep your person talking, don't let them think this is the end of the world, there is always hope.
He was treated shockingly by the police and social services without any thought or care about his wellbeing, or the wellbeing of his children who will suffer for the rest of their lives the loss of their father.
Please keep your person talking, don't let them think this is the end of the world, there is always hope.
Evening Pippin x
I have thought about you so much so thank you for your post
I have no words but I can imagine how difficult this is for you all
We are and will always be here for you xx
I have thought about you so much so thank you for your post
I have no words but I can imagine how difficult this is for you all
We are and will always be here for you xx
Aww pipin I am so sorry to hear this there are no words. Sending my condolences xx