Hi so ss have said that he will be allowed supervised access to the kids if i allow it. On the condition that i have to supervise. Now i havent actually decided wether or not to allow contact yet but the fact that i habe to do it makes me wonder if i can deal with watching him with my children knowing what i do now. He has always been a good dad and i know they will be safe with me. I just dont know how i will deal with it. Does anybody know the process of contact centres etc. I think i would prefer to begin with that route to see if i can deal with it or not. I know my children deserve to have their dad in their life and i have to put my feelings aside for them im just trying to figure out the best course of action when this all happens. Xx

Thankyou i will go with my gut afyer the sentencing etc. Im not prepared to make a decision until i knownthe final outcome of everything thanks again for the advice xx