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So this month allot has happened with my ex and here it is....
His on a 2year probation period and has a probation officer has Community work too and is on a sex register for 10yrs.....
So now it's going on with the referral to the ss to do a assessment of when/if he and I can go fward in regards of my three children I had with him .
17, 12 and 2yo..... 2boys 1 girl
So ad a sw come visit this Friday and I had to sign out of my own mind for this to go ahead with so I'm unsure if this would be of a possible positive in supervision vists or if I can do unaided on my own way I'd do it in a safe environment where my children have a option of deciding to see him or not they ant bien made to do anything they don't feel comfortable doing but they asked me about if I would look into getting involved with him and my honest opinion on this is I don't know because I'm 1 scared and two what would happen so to help me out will anyone advise me I want utter honest to say I was in a relationship with him for over 10 years and I have been separated since June 14th 2022.....
His not living anywhere near us too so my location is never going to be given to him at this stage
Many thanks for reading this.
His on a 2year probation period and has a probation officer has Community work too and is on a sex register for 10yrs.....
So now it's going on with the referral to the ss to do a assessment of when/if he and I can go fward in regards of my three children I had with him .
17, 12 and 2yo..... 2boys 1 girl
So ad a sw come visit this Friday and I had to sign out of my own mind for this to go ahead with so I'm unsure if this would be of a possible positive in supervision vists or if I can do unaided on my own way I'd do it in a safe environment where my children have a option of deciding to see him or not they ant bien made to do anything they don't feel comfortable doing but they asked me about if I would look into getting involved with him and my honest opinion on this is I don't know because I'm 1 scared and two what would happen so to help me out will anyone advise me I want utter honest to say I was in a relationship with him for over 10 years and I have been separated since June 14th 2022.....
His not living anywhere near us too so my location is never going to be given to him at this stage
Many thanks for reading this.
Hi Whisper - not much help from me I'm afraid, other than to say that you seem to be very open to thinking carefully about whether you will eventually have another relationship with your patrner. As long as you keep stressing that you will always put your children first in any future decision, you're not saying anything that your SW should find worrying.
I'm really replying so your post gets bumped up to the top of the forum as it might disappear onto a new page soon and hopefully people who oan reply helpfully will now see it. But sending a big hug your way!
I'm really replying so your post gets bumped up to the top of the forum as it might disappear onto a new page soon and hopefully people who oan reply helpfully will now see it. But sending a big hug your way!
Rainydays
Thanks for the simple reply I'm not rushing into this I want to do ryt by the kids because I feel so bad choosing a father that in their own minds to decide on whether they will want to have him in thier lifes it's just judgmental side of ppl thinking of if I did go bk to him so I'm staying as a friend who wants him to do all his community work and work on course with his parole officer and his commitment on never bien a stupid person whom broke up the family of June.....
Thanks for the simple reply I'm not rushing into this I want to do ryt by the kids because I feel so bad choosing a father that in their own minds to decide on whether they will want to have him in thier lifes it's just judgmental side of ppl thinking of if I did go bk to him so I'm staying as a friend who wants him to do all his community work and work on course with his parole officer and his commitment on never bien a stupid person whom broke up the family of June.....