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Webb89

Member since
July 2022

438 posts

Posted Sun December 31, 2023 11:47pmReport post

Just wanted to wish everyone a happy new year. I know some of you are at the beginning of your journey, but time is a healer. Problems do not go away totally but their impact lessens with time. With the new year it helps to think of your life a fresh. It maybe a dofferent new year to previous but take a breath and focus on keeping yourself healthy, to remember to look after yourself as well as your family.

I will be raising a glass of Baileys to myself and to all you strong women on this forum.

Upset mum

Member since
June 2020

2403 posts

Posted Mon January 1, 2024 12:31amReport post

Webb89 x

Thank you for been an incredible inspiration to each and everyone of us x

It is a pleasure to have met you on this horrendous journey xx

Webb89

Member since
July 2022

438 posts

Posted Mon January 1, 2024 12:43amReport post

Thank you Upset for always being there for me. This forum saved my life. I truly do not know how i would have coped without you and the incredible poeple here.



This year I need to get a grip on my life and get full disclosure of my OH crimes. I am finally feeling a little stronger and hope that I will finally make a decision to stay or leave my OH. A big decision either way. But for now, just thinking positively of the new year. X

Caggie164

Member since
October 2023

274 posts

Posted Mon January 1, 2024 12:59amReport post

Happy New Year to you too.

I've had a glass or two of fizz so cheers.

Onwards and upwards xx

scaredandconfused

Member since
June 2021

437 posts

Posted Mon January 1, 2024 6:50amReport post

Happy new year all.

I hope everyone gets through the year in anyway they can and always remember how strong each and every one of you are xxx

Hycinth

Member since
October 2023

54 posts

Posted Mon January 1, 2024 8:18pmReport post

Happy New Year!

Thanks Web89. Like you - I will make a firm decision this year to stay or go. Although I know deep down what my decision is - to leave. I just haven't built up the strength and independence to do it yet. I have a son to think about too. So I'm thinking that everything will happen in it's time.

I'm so grateful for this forum. It's been a life line in this horrendous journey.

Katie28

Member since
December 2021

183 posts

Posted Mon January 1, 2024 8:34pmReport post

Happy New Year to everyone and let's hope whatever choices, decisions, pathways and experiences we have to make or take are the right ones, let's hope the confusion turns to clarity and the pain turns to peace. Whatever stage of the journey we are on we can continue to support each other and stay strong.
Love Katie xxxx

Webb89

Member since
July 2022

438 posts

Posted Tue January 2, 2024 12:42amReport post

Thank you for your lovely words Katie.



Hycinth ....I am 18 months post knock and still struggle with the debate of staying or going. I just want to be able to move forward with my life instead of being in limbo. But there is no rush to make a decision. You need to do what is right by you. X

Edited Tue January 2, 2024 12:45am