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It's been 1 year know since socail closed my case I am staying with my mum and dad with my son and my husband is staying in out family home were we used to stay together I am finding it really hard livening with my parents me and my mum have never had the best relationship and I feel as she knows my situation she takes advantage out of it she knows how my son can't see his dad unsupervised till he is 7 years old and she knows I can't go back there I feel like my life has just paused we can't live together or have another kid just can carry on like normal people do even though he is a low risk and his offence was online I just wish this all was a bad dream and I just can get on with my life socail was not happy about me wanted to stay with him but we have been taking thing very slow he has down course with Lucy faithfull and saved up money for it he is doing everything he can but I really can't do anything untill my boy is 7 . If I was to move back with him I will have to contact socail and they will get involved and will need to do risk assessment again if he was to stay with us . Social and the gardian was not happy for us to continue our relationship so that's why I decided to separate as I need to protect my son I can't have him taken away from me but it diner help at all when you don't have supportive family at all and my dad is also very ill I am also looking after him I just wanted everything to go back to normal I don't really hear that many positive stories about family being together and have another child and they get given a chance .sorry for going on and on need led to get it off my chest xx
Hi lovely
I'm really sorry your feeling like that . Is there no way your husband could move in with family member and you and your son go back to the house ? Are you still waiting on charges ?
I have also seperated from my husband after police seized phone for iioc . No charges yet as it was only 3 months ago . Very much in limbo . He has moved in with his mother and myself and my children are living in our home.
Social services involves as well , no unsupervised contact only with myself present. It's really hard as before this nightmare he has always been a fantastic dad to the kids and I know he loves them so much and they love him.
I love him too and if this doesn't become public knowledge I think In the future we could get back together . But if it was in the media there's no way I could deal with it. I would never be able to get my family back I just couldn't deal with the stigma personally so there's a lot on the line.
have you looked at doing the inform course with Lucy faithful ? I'm doing it in feb I'm hoping I feel some kind of support from that .
Feel free to send me a message anytime xx
I'm really sorry your feeling like that . Is there no way your husband could move in with family member and you and your son go back to the house ? Are you still waiting on charges ?
I have also seperated from my husband after police seized phone for iioc . No charges yet as it was only 3 months ago . Very much in limbo . He has moved in with his mother and myself and my children are living in our home.
Social services involves as well , no unsupervised contact only with myself present. It's really hard as before this nightmare he has always been a fantastic dad to the kids and I know he loves them so much and they love him.
I love him too and if this doesn't become public knowledge I think In the future we could get back together . But if it was in the media there's no way I could deal with it. I would never be able to get my family back I just couldn't deal with the stigma personally so there's a lot on the line.
have you looked at doing the inform course with Lucy faithful ? I'm doing it in feb I'm hoping I feel some kind of support from that .
Feel free to send me a message anytime xx
Thank you for you reply if it was easy for me to move back I would my son has started school here so I would have to look for a school and find him a place and my case is closed for a year it was open when my son was 6 Months now he is going to be 5 in Mach very long journey honestly. I have done the course with Lucy faithfull more about how to spot behaviour if they are offending and why they offend but socail will be happy that you are doing this how old are you kids and what was your husband offence if you don't mind me asking x