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TryingtoKeepHope

Member since
June 2023

61 posts

Posted Wed January 10, 2024 8:22pmReport post

It's now been a year since the knock and I still feel no closer to an answer since the day it all happened.

I've lost count of how many times my OH bail has been extended, off the top of my head I think 3 or 4, he's had his 2nd interview (which he's not been able to tell me anything about), bail extended again but this time through CPS I think, his bail is due to end soon but we have honestly no idea what happens.

Is it another interview? Will they finally decide to charge him or not?

I've put my foot down and practically demanded to have full disclosure from his solicitor, still waiting but I'm just getting fed up with it all. Literally no one will tell me anything other than "its a lot" which isn't very helpful in the slightest, not to mention that every proffessional I have to work with is kept in the loop, but me our child's mother is told absolutely nothing.

I get that every case is different but could someone please explain clearly how the process is supposed to work? TIA xx

Inturmoil1974

Member since
November 2022

285 posts

Posted Wed January 10, 2024 8:28pmReport post

Are you and oh still together? I was told ar first I wasn't allowed full disclosure as police had cited me as a witness but the solicitor then allowed me to all meetings

TryingtoKeepHope

Member since
June 2023

61 posts

Posted Wed January 10, 2024 9:08pmReport post

Yeah, we're still together admittedly just barely mostly due to us not being allowed to live together with having a baby, going through this hasn't helped either.

Thing is I wouldn't want to go in with him as I don't want anything in a lot of detail, all I want to know is how many images, what device, when, how long and that's it.

I just don't know how any of it works in the legal system, and the only way SS have ever explained anything to me is by painting it in the worst light possible, we had absolutely no idea about courses or anything until I came to the forum. I'm constantly asked to make a decision i.e leave, but I have next to no information to go on.