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Parental controls for 17 year old who offended at 15

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Beyonce

Member since
May 2023

63 posts

Posted Mon February 19, 2024 10:38pmReport post

My stepson has had his devices back after being arrested last April.YOT saw him & he is going to be assessed for autism,get 'education' and offence will show up on enhanced dbs.I am in bits whilst his parents sweep things under the carpet!!
I've found out has his laptop back but his Mum hadn't put parental controls on!!! I don't get that after over 80 images were found of girls aged 10-16,some were anime.Please can somebody explain why he is being trusted but not protected???

I need to back off for my mental health but I've worked with children all my life & im devasted trying to keep our family together

Hoping he gets lots of support before he turns 18 in November

Thanks for reading x

Lucy from Stop it Now!

Member since
September 2018

496 posts

Posted Mon March 4, 2024 12:02pmReport post

Hello,

Thank you for posting on the Family and Friends forum, we understand that it is not easy to post on a forum about these difficult situations. I can see that you have not yet had a reply on your post, hopefully someone else in a similar situation can reply soon with some support.


If you haven't already done so, I would also encourage you to contact our Stop it Now helpline. The helpline is anonymous, confidential and free, on 0808 1000 900. One of our trained advisors will then be able to explore your situation in detail and provide some support and do their best to answer your questions. Our trained advisors deal with similar concerns to yours every day and will be able to talk these through with you and offer you the best advice we can.

I hope this has been helpful.

Take care,

Lucy