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I am now standing up to my husband about him not supporting me & his son who was arrested last April for looking at indecent photos of children & anime.
I have tried to find out the details of the offence but neither social services or the police will disclose because I am stepmum! I have been a main parent from when my stepson was 5 to now he's 17
My husband no longer wants me to see his son & his ex wife & him want me to be silenced!!! So bang goes my marriage & my relationship with my stepson,so very sad????
I have disclosed a variety of red flags which showed my stepson needed support with online behaviour but he never got assessed for autism & then offended at age 15 then arrested.I have everything crossed he won't offend again & YOT are going to 12 sessions,his offence will come up on an enhanced dbs
My husband has thrown our life & my adult childrens' lives away because he won't face up to what his son has done! He didn't even go to any of the police & YOT interviews.What a coward & so sad for his son
Time to treasure my children,family & friends.I'm going to get through this
Thank you everyone reading & supporting me since the arrest last April
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I have tried to find out the details of the offence but neither social services or the police will disclose because I am stepmum! I have been a main parent from when my stepson was 5 to now he's 17
My husband no longer wants me to see his son & his ex wife & him want me to be silenced!!! So bang goes my marriage & my relationship with my stepson,so very sad????
I have disclosed a variety of red flags which showed my stepson needed support with online behaviour but he never got assessed for autism & then offended at age 15 then arrested.I have everything crossed he won't offend again & YOT are going to 12 sessions,his offence will come up on an enhanced dbs
My husband has thrown our life & my adult childrens' lives away because he won't face up to what his son has done! He didn't even go to any of the police & YOT interviews.What a coward & so sad for his son
Time to treasure my children,family & friends.I'm going to get through this
Thank you everyone reading & supporting me since the arrest last April
x
My husband will not leave our home whilst I am at a friends,my adult children are at their Dads.What do I di?I need space I get my mental health back on track coz I'm off work sick with stress leading to depression & anxiety.I have done all I can & I now have to look after me
Aftet 12 years together this is awful but I no longer will put up with everything resting on me & my family,friends are here to support me
Denial is so dangerous????
Aftet 12 years together this is awful but I no longer will put up with everything resting on me & my family,friends are here to support me
Denial is so dangerous????
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Update my husband is leaving now he knows I have his devices.He thinks I suspect him of looking at innapropriate material & he's panicking! So I will be handing in his devices & sexually explicit dvds to the police.My stepson needs protecting in our house so he doesn't offend again.I know I'm doing the right thing
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Hi Beyonce,
I hope that things are more settled for you today. I'm incredibly sorry that this has had such an impact on your marriage, as with everything about parenting though it's important to be on the same page and dad clearly isn't.
Seek support from professionals if possible to start to heal your own mental health. If you post on the discussion section you'll likely get more responses. Please do continue to reach out as although you've stepped back you're still experiencing the same trauma as all of us on here.
Sending you love, strength and peace xxx
I hope that things are more settled for you today. I'm incredibly sorry that this has had such an impact on your marriage, as with everything about parenting though it's important to be on the same page and dad clearly isn't.
Seek support from professionals if possible to start to heal your own mental health. If you post on the discussion section you'll likely get more responses. Please do continue to reach out as although you've stepped back you're still experiencing the same trauma as all of us on here.
Sending you love, strength and peace xxx
Thanks for replying x