Staying together with child involved
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Hey all, it's been over 2 years now and it still hasn't gone to cps. I dip in and out of the forum because I start reading too much and then get upset.
I had a meeting with the SW today who had been talking with SWIFT family services who want to know if im still staying with husband.
Ive always said i was going to and for this have been deemed an unprotective parent. They left me alone for a while, but now seem to be back on my case.
he was arrested for having a handful of IIOC and conversations he mentioned something about a pic and mentioned our daughter (nothing sexual)
How many of you have stayed together that have children? He's currently living in his own flat and has no unsupervised contact. I just feel they are trying to pressure me into doing something I don't want because it will make their life easier.
sorry for the essay x
I had a meeting with the SW today who had been talking with SWIFT family services who want to know if im still staying with husband.
Ive always said i was going to and for this have been deemed an unprotective parent. They left me alone for a while, but now seem to be back on my case.
he was arrested for having a handful of IIOC and conversations he mentioned something about a pic and mentioned our daughter (nothing sexual)
How many of you have stayed together that have children? He's currently living in his own flat and has no unsupervised contact. I just feel they are trying to pressure me into doing something I don't want because it will make their life easier.
sorry for the essay x
Hi,
Have you been supervising contact? Have you done any courses.
I think a lot of the time ss put pressure on people to end the relationship because it means less paperwork.
Staying in the relationship is not being unprotective on its own. If you are open to learning about risk and how to mitigate that risk to your child then there shouldn't be any reason for you leaving the relationship if that's not what you want xxx
Have you been supervising contact? Have you done any courses.
I think a lot of the time ss put pressure on people to end the relationship because it means less paperwork.
Staying in the relationship is not being unprotective on its own. If you are open to learning about risk and how to mitigate that risk to your child then there shouldn't be any reason for you leaving the relationship if that's not what you want xxx
Hi, we have stayed together and share 3 children.
My husband is still being investigated, his arrest was in July 22.
Social services have closed our case in August 22 and since then I haven't heard anything from them.
He's allowed to stay in our house, if I supervise him with the children.
I am sorry that you're going through a tough time with social services. I have never heard of Swift family services.
It's totally up to you if you want to remain in the relationship. All you need to do is safeguard your children and understand risk.
My husband is still being investigated, his arrest was in July 22.
Social services have closed our case in August 22 and since then I haven't heard anything from them.
He's allowed to stay in our house, if I supervise him with the children.
I am sorry that you're going through a tough time with social services. I have never heard of Swift family services.
It's totally up to you if you want to remain in the relationship. All you need to do is safeguard your children and understand risk.
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Thank you for the replies.
we are doing everything they have asked of us.
My husband has moved out and had his own flat. He comes round pretty much everyday after work, has dinner and goes home. There is no unsupervised contact.
They put my daughter on a child protection plan, so we are sticking to all rules.
we are doing everything they have asked of us.
My husband has moved out and had his own flat. He comes round pretty much everyday after work, has dinner and goes home. There is no unsupervised contact.
They put my daughter on a child protection plan, so we are sticking to all rules.
I'm in a similar situation. My husband lives separate from us at the moment. All visits are supervised. He has attended the course and I know the reasons why he downloaded images. He is seeking help and support. My family and friends want me to walk away from the relationship but I love him and we have been together a long time. We are still currently waiting for this to go to court and am worried about what will happen.
Don't know what to do regarding our marriage and relationship. I would like to support him but I'm worried about the impact this will have on my relationship with my family and the impact upon my own children. Also concerned regarding our safety.
Don't know what to do regarding our marriage and relationship. I would like to support him but I'm worried about the impact this will have on my relationship with my family and the impact upon my own children. Also concerned regarding our safety.