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Wolfmama

Member since
January 2019

7 posts

Posted Mon September 9, 2019 5:28pmReport post

14 months down the line I have access to the full forensic report. All this tune my ex maintained he looked at 14/15 yo, this is obviously revolting and disturbed enough but the forensic report details that actually he was accessing cat a images of children 5-7. Our daughter’s exact age. It’s like finding out all over again. Absolutely traumatising. I hate that man for what he’s done to my daughter’s life. Any man who can look at this stuff is sick and wrong and doesn’t deserve to his freedom. He’s sentenced next Tuesday. How could he do this? I’m so close to actually vomiting.

Dance in the rain

Member since
July 2019

14 posts

Posted Mon September 9, 2019 6:06pmReport post

Hi Wolfmama,

I'm so sorry to hear you are having an even rougher time with this situation. And even more so that you have been lied to again. I can't imagine how that feels and I in hope that I won't, but we never really know until the point you are at.

You ask how - Has he given any indication as to why he was looking, such as a porn addiction?

Try and stay strong xxx

Partner

Member since
July 2019

221 posts

Posted Sat September 21, 2019 10:57pmReport post

Wolfmama,

Do you mind me asking if he's the father of your daughter and that has enabled you to see the report. I would really like too. For closure. He was my partner but non father of my kids. I'd have no idea of how to find that information. My ex is still under investigation, I believe so not far down the line enough I assume.

How did the sentancing go? Did you go along? Again, I'd like to know. Again, for closure.

Are you okay? I'm hoping you've managed to have support to help you get over the shock. We are such innocent victims in this. How I wish we could give each other hugs so we all know we are not alone.

Thinking of you. X

Flipside

Member since
September 2019

11 posts

Posted Sun September 22, 2019 10:29amReport post

Hi Wolfmama

I am relatively new here but I have very limited information about my ex but that was enough. I myself, do not want to know the extent of what he has done, as like you I would not be able too deal with it.

I did vomit, several times.

We are in a horrible place but together we will survive as we are stronger than them and must rise above chooseing the wrong person. Believe me once they start lying they never stop.

It must be such a shock, going round and round in your head. Someone told me to do breathing exercises and this helps.

i really hope you get through this. Sending lots of hugs. Xx