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when do people actually stop!!!! domt see them take nothing to do with them bit can't keep you out of their mouths, anything to wind people up and get a bite or a rise ...ive good friends who know my family situation and they never let people talk behind our backs but they shouldn't have to be defending us as a family to absolute idiots who know nothing , certainly don't know a lot other than a paper article ...this was last year and certain people cannot let go because then who would they talk about right ?? ive learned through all of this who my true friends and family are and they mean the world to us and I have also learned how horrible people can be , old friends who sit back stir the pot and absolutely love any form of drama they can create these people love to see people hurt ...under any circumstances I couldn't not watxh people suffer like that and take any form of gratification from it and some what make it about themselves..they have no idea and I mean no idea what we have gone through , the emotions , last year I didn't care if I lived but these people don't see that ..small town gossip..old friends who I'm grateful for that they aren't in my life long before any of this took place and I feel that is where their bitterness lies !!!! I KNOW I am a good person as is my family until any of these people have to deal with what we have they will never have a clue , I've learned so much about myself from everything but I wonder what actually possess people to treat other humans like that ? I was raised very well will loving parents and don't have it in me to be so damn cruel and enjoy it !!! sorry for the rant ive been quiet for a while because slowly but surely I'm getting on with life but youl all know these emotions I feel and today I just had to express them xz

thank you and your a million precent correct!!!! and they aren't worth the emotions if only they knew !!!! wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy!! its easy to spread gossip and have opinions but when yiu know nothing other a paper article it's hurtful because once we were close but I do take it as a personal vendetta so it's says more about them as human beings than me !! one day I will completely be over their nonsense and thank you for the reply it means a lot I know you know the feelings I describe that no one else could possibly know until their in our shoes !! xxz

you ate correct and I admire that definitely take what you've said into account will hopefully help me along the way you sound like my mother and she's a strong lady xx