Ex husband and my children.
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My ex husband (seperated for 3 years) was arrested 3 weeks ago now for one image shared on Snapchat of an underage child from a porn site. He has since admitted to having conversations with women around daddy/daughter role play scenarios and would screenshot images where he insisted he thought the women were over 18 but made to look young. To an extent I believe his story however I'm not sure as the conversations he had were women in their 30s role playing a teenager.
It's all new/fresh and at this stage I am considering supervised contact possibly. My daughters are 4/6 and adore their dad. SS have said he can have supervised contact.
I have no idea how to explain to them why they are no longer allowed to stay at daddy's or go to his house etc. they are way too young to be told the truth at this stage.
Thanks
It's all new/fresh and at this stage I am considering supervised contact possibly. My daughters are 4/6 and adore their dad. SS have said he can have supervised contact.
I have no idea how to explain to them why they are no longer allowed to stay at daddy's or go to his house etc. they are way too young to be told the truth at this stage.
Thanks
Hello
so sorry that your in this situation.
Im in a similar situation myself with my Oh on snapchat where he sent a photo of his legs and asked.
We were on a child in need plan whilst SS assessed me and my OH and now they have closed our case with a safety plan in place that he can have unlimited supervised contact with our children except he just isnt allowed in the house or to stay overnight until we know the outcome.
I felt the same way as you, i didnt know what to say to my little ones who absolutey adore and worship their dad. Does he work? sorry to prude but i told my little ones that he has to work away sadly and they facetime everynight and then we see each other every weekend on his "days" off and his "boss" has said he must finish all his work they want him to do before he can come home. Told this to SS who loved the idea. Obviously this is only tempory but it also helped me to get my head round things and now a few months on, im in a better place.
so sorry that your in this situation.
Im in a similar situation myself with my Oh on snapchat where he sent a photo of his legs and asked.
We were on a child in need plan whilst SS assessed me and my OH and now they have closed our case with a safety plan in place that he can have unlimited supervised contact with our children except he just isnt allowed in the house or to stay overnight until we know the outcome.
I felt the same way as you, i didnt know what to say to my little ones who absolutey adore and worship their dad. Does he work? sorry to prude but i told my little ones that he has to work away sadly and they facetime everynight and then we see each other every weekend on his "days" off and his "boss" has said he must finish all his work they want him to do before he can come home. Told this to SS who loved the idea. Obviously this is only tempory but it also helped me to get my head round things and now a few months on, im in a better place.