What do I do?
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As most of you know my husband was sentenced 18 months ago, suspended sentence. Hit the local rag, no major issues. Neighbours don't speak to any of us.
Neighbours son who is aged 17 has been left home alone presumably whilst his parents have gone away.
We came home around 10pm and he is clearly having a party. He then proceeded to shout paedo several times out of the window.
We didn't react just went in the house. I am really shook up, this is the first time we have experienced this. I don't want to go to bed as I am worried he may do something to my house/car whilst we are asleep.
Do I say something to the neighbours once they are back. I now feel really vulnerable.
Thanks
Cornish Tea
Neighbours son who is aged 17 has been left home alone presumably whilst his parents have gone away.
We came home around 10pm and he is clearly having a party. He then proceeded to shout paedo several times out of the window.
We didn't react just went in the house. I am really shook up, this is the first time we have experienced this. I don't want to go to bed as I am worried he may do something to my house/car whilst we are asleep.
Do I say something to the neighbours once they are back. I now feel really vulnerable.
Thanks
Cornish Tea
We recently had someone say the p word into our ring door bell it was a friend of our neighbour, our neighbour told her to stop but it really shook us up we are only 5 weeks past media exposure, we mentioned it to our liaison police officer who said they could have a word if we wanted but we chose to just leave it but wanted police to be aware of it, I very much doubt she would have said it to our face but used the ring doorbell as an opportunity to say something our neighbour was mortified by her friend.
We have been lucky as in our other neighbours who have been there a while my oh has spoken too and they have not changed towards us at all, I have never been the most neighbourly of people I have just always been a hello or good morning person perhaps chatted on a summers day we are literally just trying to live a normal life now but there always seems to be that little cloud hanging over.
We have been lucky as in our other neighbours who have been there a while my oh has spoken too and they have not changed towards us at all, I have never been the most neighbourly of people I have just always been a hello or good morning person perhaps chatted on a summers day we are literally just trying to live a normal life now but there always seems to be that little cloud hanging over.
I had my property graffittied and then burgled by a neighbour as a direct result. I reported the graffiti but didn't want to press charges as I was so frightened - wish I had now. Police got him for the break in though.
I would report it so it is on record in case anything else happens.
I have a marker on my property so if I call the police I get through quicker. Just an idea.
I would report it so it is on record in case anything else happens.
I have a marker on my property so if I call the police I get through quicker. Just an idea.
Hi Cornish Tea,
I think you did the right thing by not reacting and ignoring him, it has most probably been fuelled by alcohol and bravado behavior. I would strongly advise against speaking to his parents as that could fuel more confrontation and possibly more verbal abuse. I would agree that you must tell your husbands Visor and they should be able to address the culprit if they think it is necessary. Hope you're okay but for both of your sakes not reacting is the best thing for both of you. Xxx
I think you did the right thing by not reacting and ignoring him, it has most probably been fuelled by alcohol and bravado behavior. I would strongly advise against speaking to his parents as that could fuel more confrontation and possibly more verbal abuse. I would agree that you must tell your husbands Visor and they should be able to address the culprit if they think it is necessary. Hope you're okay but for both of your sakes not reacting is the best thing for both of you. Xxx