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So here we are again!. My partner has another sentence hearing tomorrow. I think it's his 5th or 6th one they keep getting relisted. It's horrendous, the days leading upto them I'm a total mess. For people who don't know he got the knock in Jan 21, so over 3 years ago. It's possession of iioc all cats. I'm petrified he'll go to prison and I'm petrified it will go in the papers. It's all I think about unless I'm at work, I just want it over with now the stress is killing me
Best of luck Louise, I shall be thinking of you. This process is nothing short of cruel on the families. Keep us posted X
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Will be thinking about you x
Will be thinking off you. Xxx
Thank you Ellbee, it is very cruel on the families. Yes he has commited a crime and should face the consequences but I just can't believe it's taken so long!. The limbo stage is horrible, you carry on with life, go to work and just get on then another date comes up for the sentence hearing and I'm full of terrible anxiety and worry
Bless you Louise - wish you all the best and hope you get conclusion after the horrendous wait.
At least you know what you are facing then, and can move forward to deal with the next stage.
my thoughts are with you x
At least you know what you are facing then, and can move forward to deal with the next stage.
my thoughts are with you x
Everything x for you both xx
Hugs sent xx
Hugs sent xx
Sending love and virtual support to you .
This is just an horrendous process to go through x
This is just an horrendous process to go through x
Thank you ladies, I've just had enough now. It's been a very long three years. I just will never understand why one minute they leave you to get on with your lives th n when it comes to sentencing there's a possibility of custodial! How can they justify saying he's potentially a high risk and send him to prison yet we've been carrying on as normal all this time! I'm crossing everything hoping for a suspended sentence
Louise I have been thinking of you all week I can imagine the stress your under I am hoping it goes ahead tomorrow for all your sake xxx
Oh Louise it's terrible. Thinking of you and best of luck xx
I wish you all the best, Louise xx
Wishing you a positive' outcome Louise. The 'not knowing' is one of the worst aspects of this nightmare.
Let's hope it's a community sentence.
Let's hope it's a community sentence.
His hearing is on for tomorrow. I've just read the pre sentence report and it's very detailed. I feel incredibly shocked, scared and very very worried. Had a big rant at him tonight and I feel sick right now. The stress is nothing I've ever felt in my life
Thinking of you
Virtual hugs
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Virtual hugs
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Hi Louise, I don't think there is anything I can say that's going to make you feel any better tonight, so I'll simply say I'm thinking of you both and hoping for the best possible outcome.
Glad it's happening, big deep breath - you can do this. We are behind you! X
Thank you everyone for your virtual hugs and well wishes. I'm so petrified this morning. The hearing isn't till this afternoon, he'll probably be the last one going in. I'm keeping everything crossed he won't get media attention especially as it's towards the end of the day but who can say!
Sending you both strength x
Thinking of you Louise and hoping for the best outcome for you both. You deserve some form of closure after this amount of time X
Thinking of you today xxx
Sending strength for today. You're not alone, and you can do this!
Everything crossed that today finally happens with the best outcome xxx
Thinking of you both. Hoping as it is later on a Friday afternoon and the press aren't there.
Julie
Julie
I hope it's all over and everything has worked out for you. Thinking of you and sending hugs
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So it's all over! Suspended sentence, horizon course and unpaid work. Honestly the relief I feel right now! It was the most horrendous experience sitting in that courtroom. I cried the whole time!. Luckily no press in the courtroom and no press in the court so fingers crossed we avoid media!
Phew, well done you, a huge sigh of relief. Make sure you have a large glass of wine, you've survived another stage of this messy/horrible journey xxxxxx
The relief and closure must be wonderful. Enjoy your weekend x
Well done, for staying strong, you can now move on with your life and try and put this horrible mess behind you. Xxx
I feel relief to see your post so I can imagine the relief you feel. Be kind to yourself tonight and for the next while whilst you get over today. It took tremendous courage today.
Well done Louise for getting through today and on the wonderful outcome xx
Oh thank God, so so relieved for you both. Now relax....
So pleased about your outcome. Now you can both move past this stage.
Wishing you all the best going forward. X
Wishing you all the best going forward. X
Im relatively new here but saw your post and had to comment. i am so glad you have the outcome you did.
Time to take time for yourself, and to put that chapter behind you and to look forward to whats ahead. Things may take time but youve got through the hard part.
wishing you and your partner all the best going forward xxx
Time to take time for yourself, and to put that chapter behind you and to look forward to whats ahead. Things may take time but youve got through the hard part.
wishing you and your partner all the best going forward xxx
happy for your outcome now you can focus on you and tey leaving the mess behind ???? xx
So pleased for his community sentence. Now relax!
What a huge relief! You have been through such turmoil with so many re-lists, and years waiting!! Tonight and going forward you deserve peace and recovery.
I am so pleased for you!! X
I am so pleased for you!! X
So pleased for the outcome and totally understand the pain of sitting through the court , I spent most of the time in tears also x
Take a few days to catch your breath xx
I am so pleased for you both xx
Take a few days to catch your breath xx
I am so pleased for you both xx
So relieved for you. Hope you're able to relax and have a lovely weekend now.
thank you for sharing and well done on getting through this
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thank you for sharing and well done on getting through this
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So relieved for you. Good luck in your onward journey xx
Louise49
My story is not to dissimilar to yours. You must be very relieved with that outcome and definitely deserve a large glass or wine or a large g & t and some time to reset.
My journey is only just beginning and the anxiety is crippling me, I have thoughts of just running away but the love I have for my OH is stopping me. The silence is so loud!!
I can only pray that some how I find the strength to get through this and come out the other side. I pray for a lenient judge who sees the idiocy and poor judgement made by my OH as this was just one big mistake.
My story is not to dissimilar to yours. You must be very relieved with that outcome and definitely deserve a large glass or wine or a large g & t and some time to reset.
My journey is only just beginning and the anxiety is crippling me, I have thoughts of just running away but the love I have for my OH is stopping me. The silence is so loud!!
I can only pray that some how I find the strength to get through this and come out the other side. I pray for a lenient judge who sees the idiocy and poor judgement made by my OH as this was just one big mistake.