So confused! Any help appreciated x
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I'm so unbelievably stressed at the moment, my panic and anxiety attacks have resurfaced with a vengeance and my CPTSD is going crazy. Im waiting for CBT which is taking ages so I'm trying to manage them on my own again. I've sought help through all available sources.
The offence took place on 6th Feb this year and I'm waiting to here if police have enough evidence to take the case to the CPS. I was told they have downloaded OHs phone but I'm not allowed to know if they found anything. I don't want details, just a simple yes or no would be so helpful to me so at least I have something to work with and move forward.
They said that as the offence is linked to my address and his phone number that is enough. They asked me about the phone number that was very similar to his but not the same in my interview.
OH has repeatedly said they will find nothing on his devices as he hasn't done anything. At this point I wish he would just tell me he has done it then I could make sense of everything that is happening.
Please help! Does anyone else have experience of their person saying they definitely haven't done anything and what was the outcome?
The offence took place on 6th Feb this year and I'm waiting to here if police have enough evidence to take the case to the CPS. I was told they have downloaded OHs phone but I'm not allowed to know if they found anything. I don't want details, just a simple yes or no would be so helpful to me so at least I have something to work with and move forward.
They said that as the offence is linked to my address and his phone number that is enough. They asked me about the phone number that was very similar to his but not the same in my interview.
OH has repeatedly said they will find nothing on his devices as he hasn't done anything. At this point I wish he would just tell me he has done it then I could make sense of everything that is happening.
Please help! Does anyone else have experience of their person saying they definitely haven't done anything and what was the outcome?
Hello, I have no clue.
I have not the same experience as my person is not saying exactly he hasn't done anything, but that he does not remember some stuff.
But wanted to say I understand deeply your feeling as i share the same difficult moments and panic attacks. Please take a moment for yourself.. I know you want answers and the waiting is horrible, as I feel exactly the same and I am just at the 3 week of this journey.
Don't let yourself down, time will give you answers, and it is something I repeat to myself every difficult moment. If there are evidences, at some point, there won't be a way to hide them or maybe there is nothing there. Its hard to say and understand i am sure but you will have answers.
Think of yourself. This won't last forever; you will go through it and overcome all these challenges. Take care of yourself. I am sure at some point in the future, we will be looking at ourselves and be grateful that we didn't let ourselves down. Stay strong and lots of hugs and love for you.
I have not the same experience as my person is not saying exactly he hasn't done anything, but that he does not remember some stuff.
But wanted to say I understand deeply your feeling as i share the same difficult moments and panic attacks. Please take a moment for yourself.. I know you want answers and the waiting is horrible, as I feel exactly the same and I am just at the 3 week of this journey.
Don't let yourself down, time will give you answers, and it is something I repeat to myself every difficult moment. If there are evidences, at some point, there won't be a way to hide them or maybe there is nothing there. Its hard to say and understand i am sure but you will have answers.
Think of yourself. This won't last forever; you will go through it and overcome all these challenges. Take care of yourself. I am sure at some point in the future, we will be looking at ourselves and be grateful that we didn't let ourselves down. Stay strong and lots of hugs and love for you.
Hi Galaxy
thank you so much for your reply and the good advice. I'm so unbelievably sorry you're here too. I'd only just begun to settle and feel more like myself after other issues which caused the CPTSD. It feels so cruel to be thrown back into it.
I guess many of us are in the same position, we will get through it and be stronger for it as much as we don't want to have to.
I Hope you are managing a restful weekend xx
thank you so much for your reply and the good advice. I'm so unbelievably sorry you're here too. I'd only just begun to settle and feel more like myself after other issues which caused the CPTSD. It feels so cruel to be thrown back into it.
I guess many of us are in the same position, we will get through it and be stronger for it as much as we don't want to have to.
I Hope you are managing a restful weekend xx
Hello, yes my OH gave permission to the the officer in charge to tell me everything that had happened after his interview as he new I wouldn't believe his account. This was very helpful as I had all the facts and made a decision to support him. His case is very low level no pictures or incitement, it was a very stupid comment on Snapchat on his part which he has taken full responsibility for. We are 20 weeks post knock and it has been absolute hell