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Confusedwife

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October 2022

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Posted Thu April 11, 2024 4:58pmReport post

Hi,

Has anyone ever received all their devices back and still been charged? Today I collected all my husbands devices but we've had no actual confirmation of what this actually means. I asked the property officer and she said you normally get it all back when the investigation is over. What does that actually mean though? Will he or won't he be charged?



the oic in charge has not been in touch at all to let us know anything, my husband's solicitor has emailed the oic but I doubt she'll get back in touch anytime soon. My head is a mess and I just need answers, I feel so confused and no idea what's happening.

Inturmoil1974

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November 2022

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Posted Thu April 11, 2024 5:20pmReport post

I would have thought you would only get devices back if nothing on them surely as anything illegal the device is destroyed

Another worried mum

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Posted Thu April 11, 2024 5:44pmReport post

I can only say our experience , we got a phonecall to say NFA re our son and we picked up his devices a week later. So it does sound hopeful for you.x

hpl111

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November 2022

392 posts

Posted Thu April 11, 2024 5:59pmReport post

I agree, it sounds positive.

Has he admitted the offence in his interview?

I believe they can still caution somebody, if there was an admission, even if no material is found.

Wishing you the besf of luck xx

Confusedwife

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October 2022

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Posted Thu April 11, 2024 7:10pmReport post

He told me he had admitted to talking to another man on kik and had shared stuff, but he had deleted his account and the app.



I really hope it is NFA, I just wish the police would just say what's happening. It's not just messing with him it's all of us.



weve not heard from the oic since feb where she said devices still not checked and she'd chase them up. Then yesterday out of the blue the letter to collect his property, the property officer did say you only really get your stuff back at the end so I'm really hopeful that this is the case but I don't want to get my hopes up in case it isn't.

Ocean

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September 2023

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Posted Thu April 11, 2024 10:16pmReport post

I don't want to make you any more anxious than you already are but my son got all his devises back and was still charged. He pleaded guilty to sexual communication and received a 2 year suspended sentence and 10 years SHPO and SOR. The evidence came from himself and the statement from the person he communicated with. There was no evidence found on his devices.

Confusedwife

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October 2022

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Posted Thu April 11, 2024 10:28pmReport post

Was he informed about it before collecting his devices?

I'm not gonna get my hopes up, I know there's huge possibility still that he'll be charged. It would just be nice if the police would let us know, it's not like we've waited nearly 2 years.

Ocean

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September 2023

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Posted Thu April 11, 2024 11:05pmReport post

His devices were returned quite quickly but it took 20 months for him to receive his charges.

Turlam

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August 2022

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Posted Fri April 12, 2024 4:46amReport post

If his devices were returned it means nothing was found on them.

My person had his returned to him and the case was closed with NFA.

If your person was accused of possession, it is very good news for him

If he was accused of communication with a decoy for example, he could still be charged if there is enough evidence on the devices of the decoy.

Do chase up the officer in charge. In our case, we were told to come pick up his devices without having been given any updates on the case. Turned out the vase was closed almost a year prior and the OIC quit and forgot to tell us.

Edited Fri April 12, 2024 4:49am

Confusedwife

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October 2022

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Posted Fri April 12, 2024 7:39amReport post

He was arrested July 2022 so they've had the devices nearly 2 years, there was no decoy it was a guy he was talking to on kik which was confirmed it was.



I did wonder if it was an NFA maybe the oic isn't happy about it that's why they've not bothered to actually tell us.



but if it is NFA and they found no evidence how can they think it's ok to go into his work and arrested him which he ended up losing his job.



his solicitor emailed yesterday to chase it up but theyre never very good at replying but I will be pushing my husband to get clarification I can't rest until I know.





turlam - that's terrible how do they think that's ok to not tell you!!

Edited Fri April 12, 2024 7:42am

Life feels over

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September 2022

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Posted Fri April 12, 2024 9:20amReport post

Is it possible to go above the OIC to get clarity? I hope the outcome is positive for you and that you obtain closure soon. The limbo is illogical and cruel x

BaffledB

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July 2021

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Posted Fri April 12, 2024 10:09amReport post

I don't want to get your hopes up but I would say it's very indicative of being NFA. Was he arrested for an iioc offence? I'm just thinking if so then the intelligence may have come from the internet provider but as he has deleted the app there will be no evidence of the alleged offence - sometimes you can retrieve information from Kik but mostly once the app is deleted all information is gone. Unless the person he was chatting to was a police decoy there will be no evidence of the conversation but even if it was a police decoy it would be extremely difficult to prove beyond reasonable double your husband was behind the chat and your husband would've had to provide information to indicate his whereabouts (phone number etc). Unless it's going to go down the route of a communication offence then it would be likely it will be NFA based on the returning of the devices.

Edited Fri April 12, 2024 10:10am

hpl111

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November 2022

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Posted Fri April 12, 2024 10:22amReport post

@BaffledB

My husband was arrested for images on kik aswell..he too deleted the app and all images on his phone.

I hope everyday the police won't find anything.

Inturmoil1974

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November 2022

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Posted Fri April 12, 2024 10:38amReport post

My oh was images deleted app immediately thumbnails were found could only be retrieved by expert but still found guilty I am afraid to say

BaffledB

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July 2021

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Posted Fri April 12, 2024 10:50amReport post

You literally never know what can happen, there are different levels of searches, the person doing the forensics can be really good at their job and even the Kik app itself, the information it stores is fragmented and you don't know whether there will be anything remaining. I don't understand how the app hasn't been banned! America are trying to ban TikTok yet nobody cares to try and ban an app which seemingly facilitates crimes against children. I hope one day someone starts proceedings against Kik like they did with Omegle and get it shut down.

hpl111

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November 2022

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Posted Fri April 12, 2024 10:59amReport post

My husband's solicitor said when images are deleted on phone, it is a matter of luck if the police can find evidence... Apparently it depends on if this particular image was overwritten by other data.

His duty solicitor on the day of arrest said that the police could restore everything and that it's best to admit everything. It was really bad advice. :/

BaffledB

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July 2021

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Posted Fri April 12, 2024 11:35amReport post

I honestly believe some solicitors are prejudiced against crimes like this as most would advise "no comment". Even when you're entirely innocent of a crime, speaking in an interview can provide information which can be conveyed at a later date as guilt which is why we should be able to rely on the advice legal professionals give us at such stressful times in our lives. The only time a no comment interview can be used against you would be, for example, in a case where you were accused of committing a crime at a location which you were categorically not at but when asked you said no comment, if it went to trial and you tried to use your whereabouts as your defence then possibly your no comment interview could have adverse inference drawn from it.

Just thought I'd share that nugget of information as it may (hopefully not) come in useful for us all in the future.

Confusedwife

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October 2022

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Posted Fri April 12, 2024 5:54pmReport post

Thank you everyone for all your advice... still no reply from the oic husband's solicitor has emailed 2 different email addresses and still nothing..... like how hard is it to reply surly it don't take that long.



there's definitely no decoy involved, it was sexual chat with another man on kik the oic told our sw which she then told me ( not sure if she was supposed to)

when the knock happened I was on my own with the kids and the police officer said it was something to do with police intelligence that's why they were there so I don't actually know what that means. I think the police don't actually think about the rest of us that this all effects.

Losteverything

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September 2022

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Posted Fri April 12, 2024 11:42pmReport post

The police recovered images from my ex's phone even though he had deleted the Kik app. I think this may be because he was accused of distribution and so I think this means that he would have downloaded the photos and they would have remained on his phone once the app was deleted. This is what I've been told but I'm no expert!

Smile through tears

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September 2021

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Posted Sat April 13, 2024 6:34amReport post

None of my sons devices were returned, destroyed even his games console?!?!?

your right Confusedwife - we've said on the forum many many times, the police don't give a damn about the turmoil and devastation they leave behind in these cases.

yes I know they have a job to do and be a backbone to a law abiding society. I have no respect left - any compassion we were shown was so obviously false and read off a cue card, offered not a dot of 'genuine' support.

I hope you have an update soon x

Edited Sat April 13, 2024 6:38am

Wolf_Pack

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June 2023

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Posted Mon April 15, 2024 11:18amReport post

It sounds positive?! We were told devices are returned at the end of the investigation. My OH devices were completed in September 23, no evidence on them, no charges, still on RUI with bail condition in supervision with our children. We've chased numerous times now and have been told the case is in low priority low risk pile and she will get to it when she has time. It's a joke they can keep families like this for as long as they like. It's so so damaging to kids xx

Confusedwife

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October 2022

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Posted Mon April 15, 2024 5:36pmReport post

We've still no updates on what is happening, his solicitor has emailed 2 email addresses one that was given me when I collect his device which replied they are not on that case!! Helpful!!! Why did they give me that email address then.... the other is the oic who hasn't replied... we've tried calling and left voicemails and nothing!!



my anxiety is through the roof I'm exhausted and can't think about anything else it's making me sick!! Why can't they just send a simple email, I just need to know so I can get on with my life. This has already consumed nearly 2 years of my life.