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Ginluver

Member since
April 2023

68 posts

Posted Thu April 18, 2024 5:36pmReport post

Well tomorrow was meant to be sentencing day after almost 2 year since the knock, it has now been postponed, I had Myself really chewed up this week with it approaching. What's the chances it could be delayed again? Just wish it was all over and didn't have to worry about what ifs anymore.

Louise49

Member since
January 2021

494 posts

Posted Thu April 18, 2024 6:35pmReport post

I'm so sorry to say that my OH sentence hearing was relisted about 5 times, he went on the 5th time last week. I can totally relate to the horrible anxiety you feel in the days running upto it. I was a mess. I also cried the whole time in the courtroom. We got through it though and he got suspended. The relief I felt walking out of the courtroom was nothing I've ver felt before. He waited over 3 years to get to court. The plea hearings were also cancelled a few times!. Hopefully your partner will get to court soon and this limbo stage will be over and fingers crossed for a positive outcome

Ginluver

Member since
April 2023

68 posts

Posted Thu April 18, 2024 6:58pmReport post

Yeah hopefully it will be over with at the next date they have given, it just feels like when is this journey of anxiety of the what ifs ever going to end? Just feeling so angry at the whole system at how long it takes and the impact it is having on me emotionally.

rainyday52

Member since
April 2023

450 posts

Posted Fri April 19, 2024 10:30amReport post

No advice just a big hug and a surge of anger again that all the delays take their toll on us families but nobody cares! Apart from here of course.

Ginluver

Member since
April 2023

68 posts

Posted Fri April 19, 2024 3:57pmReport post

Thanks for your replies just feel so angry and needed to vent my anger somewhere feeling a bit better today and hopefully soon it will go ahead and be able to move on with life.