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Dad005

Member since
March 2024

49 posts

Posted Tue May 7, 2024 4:53pmReport post

hi all,

We have now been to court, luckily a suspended sentence.

Thank you to everyone who has helped me get this far and without you lot, I would have been lost.



I am going to stay on this forum in the hope that I can be a help to others but thank you all soooo much.



Xx

Elliott

Member since
December 2023

44 posts

Posted Tue May 7, 2024 5:02pmReport post

Hi, so glad for you that you have a result - sending a hug x

Louise49

Member since
January 2021

494 posts

Posted Tue May 7, 2024 5:32pmReport post

I'm so pleased your son got a suspended sentence. I know how worried you were and going through sentencing is horrific. Now if no reporter was in the courtroom and outside there's a good chance it won't be in the media. It's 4 weeks since my OH was in court and there's been nothing in the papers so fingers crossed for you too

I have no clue

Member since
April 2024

45 posts

Posted Tue May 7, 2024 5:48pmReport post

That must be such a relief for you! Xx



I know that some will chose to leave and others to stay and whatever those reasons are they are understandable. I'm relatively new and really appreciate all the support I've been given. It's helping me through times of sheer panic and helping me think a little clearer. I couldn't get that anywhere else

Dad005

Member since
March 2024

49 posts

Posted Tue May 7, 2024 6:00pmReport post

Hi,



Thank you all for your replies, you are all amazing.

Yes I will be staying to help, I hope.

No press in court or outside, so I am really hoping that we have been lucky.

I know it's not over bit I do feel slightly better with that out the way.

Thank you again xx

scaredandconfused

Member since
June 2021

437 posts

Posted Tue May 7, 2024 6:12pmReport post

So glad for your outcome. Please just be prepared there was nobody inside or out of court and ours still was in paper online a week later, solicitor said it can be upto 2 months after sentencing they report

Dreaming

Member since
February 2024

7 posts

Posted Tue May 7, 2024 6:18pmReport post

So pleased you got the outcome you wanted.

I hope you can look to the future now and your son does well.

EBP

Member since
September 2021

198 posts

Posted Tue May 7, 2024 6:50pmReport post

So pleased it was not custodial,major hurdle overcome.

Next step Community Service,SHPO, & therapeutic help?
Good luck & best wishes.

Smile through tears

Member since
September 2021

2555 posts

Posted Wed May 8, 2024 4:07amReport post

Our circumstances are never good, but I'm so pleased you can now do your best to move on. So happy for you.

My plight will sadly continue and I still rely on the forum for it's brilliant ongoing support. It needs folk like your good self to help others which I hope I do too..... good for you in your desire to be yet another shoulder for people who find themselves here.

Edited Wed May 8, 2024 4:10am

Caggie164

Member since
October 2023

274 posts

Posted Wed May 8, 2024 6:34amReport post

That's such a relief for you. We're coming up to the nine month mark after arrest now. OH is due back in June to answer bail again. Things may have progressed but who knows. Trying to deal with each thing as it presents itself x