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Hi,
i am really struggling this week, just desperately sad about it all. I want someone to tell me it’ll all be fine but that isn’t possible. Am struggling at home without husband and he has not been allowed any contact for over 4 weeks. I have no idea how long it’ll take CS to allow him to see him. I didn’t sign up to be a single parent none of this is my choice yet somehow I am expected to just crack on. I hate my life at the moment!
i am really struggling this week, just desperately sad about it all. I want someone to tell me it’ll all be fine but that isn’t possible. Am struggling at home without husband and he has not been allowed any contact for over 4 weeks. I have no idea how long it’ll take CS to allow him to see him. I didn’t sign up to be a single parent none of this is my choice yet somehow I am expected to just crack on. I hate my life at the moment!
Hi Cornish Tea
Sorry to hear you are having a bad time. Totally understand where you are coming from. I am having a bad couple of days as well. 7 months post knock and just when I think I am coping I fall apart. Found myself coming home from work last night. Standing outside station crying my eyes out.
Anyway enough of me. You have every right to feel angry as you have been put in a dreadful situation. Have you got anyone you can talk to, even electronically? I think the isolation and secrecy makes everything 10 times worse. Calling the helpline today would be a good idea! Otherwie keep on coming to the forum. Lots of brilliant people here. Breathe deeply and take one day, even one hour at a time.
Lots of hugs - you can do this!!
Sorry to hear you are having a bad time. Totally understand where you are coming from. I am having a bad couple of days as well. 7 months post knock and just when I think I am coping I fall apart. Found myself coming home from work last night. Standing outside station crying my eyes out.
Anyway enough of me. You have every right to feel angry as you have been put in a dreadful situation. Have you got anyone you can talk to, even electronically? I think the isolation and secrecy makes everything 10 times worse. Calling the helpline today would be a good idea! Otherwie keep on coming to the forum. Lots of brilliant people here. Breathe deeply and take one day, even one hour at a time.
Lots of hugs - you can do this!!
Hi Cornish Tea
why is he not allowed any contact with you at all? That does not sound right at all. Sounds like somebody is overstepping their role somewhere
why is he not allowed any contact with you at all? That does not sound right at all. Sounds like somebody is overstepping their role somewhere
Hi Cornish Tea
Sorry that you are having a bad week. Do you have anyone that you can talk to about all this? If you don't want to tell people I totally understand that as I've not told anyone yet. If you don't, maybe call the helpline? Or visit your GP? Do you have anyone that can help you with the children to give you a break for a hour or so? I hope tomorrow is a better day for you.
Sorry that you are having a bad week. Do you have anyone that you can talk to about all this? If you don't want to tell people I totally understand that as I've not told anyone yet. If you don't, maybe call the helpline? Or visit your GP? Do you have anyone that can help you with the children to give you a break for a hour or so? I hope tomorrow is a better day for you.