Inappropriate sexual behaviour towards you?
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This is a really difficult post for me to write.
Before the knock, did anyone else have uncharacteristic abusive sexual behaviour from their partner?
I'm really struggling with this element of my situation. It felt very wrong at the time but I brushed a couple of incidents aside as unusual behaviour, maybe having an affair etc. Now with the knowledge of the offence it feels all the more painful :(
Wondering whether I'm alone here or not. Its too much to cope with on top of an already horrendous situation but I need to find a way to process what happened.
Before the knock, did anyone else have uncharacteristic abusive sexual behaviour from their partner?
I'm really struggling with this element of my situation. It felt very wrong at the time but I brushed a couple of incidents aside as unusual behaviour, maybe having an affair etc. Now with the knowledge of the offence it feels all the more painful :(
Wondering whether I'm alone here or not. Its too much to cope with on top of an already horrendous situation but I need to find a way to process what happened.
Hi Worriedmum
i was concerned about your post and just wanted to reach out to you to see if you are ok. It is never ok for partners to be sexually inappropriate with us. I couldn’t tell from your post if you meant coercive, abusive or violent. If you meant any of those things then I would really urge you to find someone to talk to. It is really important you keep yourself safe. I’m so sorry this is happening to you and I can Offer no words of wisdom except that you need to look at his behaviour in totality. I can’t demember what your partner is accused of, but if he is being sexually inappropriate in real life as well as online then you may really need to talk it over with someone who is qualified in this field.
Sorry, I have probably made you feel worse - wasn’t my intention - but as you are raising it here you must be concerned. X
i was concerned about your post and just wanted to reach out to you to see if you are ok. It is never ok for partners to be sexually inappropriate with us. I couldn’t tell from your post if you meant coercive, abusive or violent. If you meant any of those things then I would really urge you to find someone to talk to. It is really important you keep yourself safe. I’m so sorry this is happening to you and I can Offer no words of wisdom except that you need to look at his behaviour in totality. I can’t demember what your partner is accused of, but if he is being sexually inappropriate in real life as well as online then you may really need to talk it over with someone who is qualified in this field.
Sorry, I have probably made you feel worse - wasn’t my intention - but as you are raising it here you must be concerned. X
Thank you. I'm talking about attempted non consensual acts, without being explicit or triggering for oothers. I don't really know who I can talk to about this when it's two issues combined.
Hi,
Please call the helpline. It's anonymous and may be able to point you in the right direction.
I do hope your okay?
Xx
Please call the helpline. It's anonymous and may be able to point you in the right direction.
I do hope your okay?
Xx
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