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Partner

Member since
July 2019

221 posts

Posted Sat September 28, 2019 6:58pmReport post

10 weeks and live has progressed. I don't know if anyone remembers but I struggled at first. With grief as I missed him so much. I have no contact. Haven't seen or spoken to him at all since. Despite still loving him at first.

Well I bumped into him today in public. Wow. He didn't look at me and left immediately.

I was incredibly shook up. I haven't told a soul. It's not my investigation, nor is it my place too. But I didn't know what to think. Or feel. I saw and felt, for the first time, that my love for him has faded. This, is a good realisation. I'm no longer pining for him. But, well it's so strange.

He is not allowed to have contact with me as part of his bail conditions.

Sorry for waffling. Just wanted to offload on those who may understand.

Summer

Member since
July 2019

394 posts

Posted Mon September 30, 2019 7:32pmReport post

Hi partner

How are you feeling? It must have been really difficult for you seeing your ex and him ignoring you, but I guess that is what the police have instructed him to do. He is also probibly very embarrassed about the whole thing and wouldn’t know how you are feeling or what your reaction would be towards him.

I hope today has been a little easier and you can make plans for the future x

Partner

Member since
July 2019

221 posts

Posted Mon September 30, 2019 8:36pmReport post

Hi Summer,

Thank you for your kind words. Yes I'm feeling much better today thank you.

I worry about him but at least I know he's ok enough to be out and about. It was certainly strange but my future has been feeling a lot brighter these days.

I hope you are dealing with whatever brings you to this forum also.

Such great support here. X