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Galaxy123

Member since
April 2024

69 posts

Posted Wed June 5, 2024 12:49pmReport post

Hello all - I'm feeling a bit overwhelmed today. Next week, we have a return to bail date, and the police said they will inform us early next week if CPS has made a decision. Everyone is telling me they will just extend the bail because it can't be resolved in such a short time. The OIC sent the documents almost a month ago, and everyone is saying they will not have a decision yet. I just don't want to lose hope that this will be resolved soon.

The waiting is sometimes okay, sometimes a nightmare. I am still with my partner but question every day myself as this goes against my values, but it is so hard.

Hope you are all having a great week!

Bub84

Member since
January 2024

113 posts

Posted Wed June 5, 2024 12:54pmReport post

Hi Galaxy, we are at the exact same point in this journey, also waiting for a CPS decision. Hubby was due to report to bail on the 19th June but got a phone call yesterday to say its been extended to August. I hope the same doesn't happen to you and you get some answers soon. Totally understand the good and bad days. I'm also struggling this week and just want it to be over. Sending hugs xx

JellyBean96

Member since
February 2024

27 posts

Posted Wed June 5, 2024 12:55pmReport post

Hi Galaxy, my dad's case is still with the cps. He was arrested ending of Feb and forensics back ending of April and file has been with cps since. All has gone pretty quick compared to some, which I'm grateful. I feel like each step along comes with more stress and worry. Hope you're OK x

Hugosmum

Member since
April 2024

19 posts

Posted Wed June 5, 2024 3:45pmReport post

Hi Galaxy

we are also waiting for cps to come back with charges. Bail date is 13th of June and this is such a stressful time. The knock came just before Christmas and every day is a rollercoaster of emotions. It helps to be able to post on here and know we're not alone on this unimaginably difficult journey none of us ever expected to be on. Sending you a hug x

Galaxy123

Member since
April 2024

69 posts

Posted Wed June 5, 2024 5:57pmReport post

Hello Bub and Jelly - I hope so much that next week we get a decision and we can move one step further in this nightmare. I've been very nervous, irritable, and overwhelmed since yesterday. Thankfully, tomorrow is my weekly therapy session, and I hope it will bring a better mood, relaxation, and peace for my weekend!

Thank you for replying to my post. This place has become the best community I could find on such a journey, and I always find support on my "No" days. I hope in the future I will share more "Yes" and nice days rather than only the painful ones.

LittleRobin3

Member since
April 2024

291 posts

Posted Sat June 8, 2024 3:02pmReport post

Hi, my ex's case (second time around) went to the CPS about six weeks ago. It's been 2 years and 2 months since he was rearrested. The wait is making my son and I so very ill. I can't stand it. Sending you lots of love. Xx