Feels like social worker is trying to catch us out
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not that I have anything to hide, I've always been honest to my SW and have suffered the concequences for it (I suffered from severe depression YEARS before this mess- past SW said it would affect my ability as a mother), since then it honestly feels like they constantly nit pick just to find something wrong with ME, not just what's going on with my OH but something to make us both to look like inadequet parents.
My OH has pleaded guilty at magistrates, and the 1st question my SW asks is "why did he change his plea?" he's never given a plea, yes he's always said he's innocent (which I don't believe 100%) but after completing the LFF course even they said it's possible that not all images were viewed, especially if it's a high quantity. SW won't hear it, and the way I'm asked questions it's blatent that they're digging, that they want a specific answer or wording. They never tell me what they're jotting down in the visits, never been supportive or offered help for me or my OH, any help we did recieve we've had to look for ourselves.
Our SW won't even acknowledge my OH on the rare time they've seen him, any questions even court related are always asked through me and never him.
Unfortunately I don't have a say with my child being on a CPP, and our SW literally won't do anything until the next conference which is a few months away yet. Hopefully once we finally have sentancing we'll have a better chance of things getting changed for the better, but the way SS have been with us I can only hope the SHPO is reasonable.
My OH has pleaded guilty at magistrates, and the 1st question my SW asks is "why did he change his plea?" he's never given a plea, yes he's always said he's innocent (which I don't believe 100%) but after completing the LFF course even they said it's possible that not all images were viewed, especially if it's a high quantity. SW won't hear it, and the way I'm asked questions it's blatent that they're digging, that they want a specific answer or wording. They never tell me what they're jotting down in the visits, never been supportive or offered help for me or my OH, any help we did recieve we've had to look for ourselves.
Our SW won't even acknowledge my OH on the rare time they've seen him, any questions even court related are always asked through me and never him.
Unfortunately I don't have a say with my child being on a CPP, and our SW literally won't do anything until the next conference which is a few months away yet. Hopefully once we finally have sentancing we'll have a better chance of things getting changed for the better, but the way SS have been with us I can only hope the SHPO is reasonable.
I really thought our sw was on our side but today she just proved she's like the rest I've heard on here.
The courts took away my persons bail restrictions last week and we told the sw and she said he could come home then today after discussing it they don't want that anymore.
The hole way ghrough they've said they're only doing their part because of the police and now the court took it away they've doubled down.
The courts took away my persons bail restrictions last week and we told the sw and she said he could come home then today after discussing it they don't want that anymore.
The hole way ghrough they've said they're only doing their part because of the police and now the court took it away they've doubled down.
EA I feel your pain, I recently just had another core group meeting and I raised the question with what's happening with me being able to supervise contact as I've never been allowed, I specificly asked months ago what I could do, they told me to do the LFF course, did it now months later only when I ask my SW says "yeah no, not happening" Like what was the actual point? I ask for help and direction, follow exactly what they tell me and its STILL not good enough.
I'm filling a complaint no matter the outcome for my OH, all my SWs have been unprofessional for a lot of different reasons since I was first involved with them, it's really changed my view on the profession.
I really hope my OH's solicitor can battle it out to get a half decent SHPO as I can see SS doubling down, even though in my SW's own words said that they know my child is safe. Just have to wait and see.
hope you're doing okay xx
I'm filling a complaint no matter the outcome for my OH, all my SWs have been unprofessional for a lot of different reasons since I was first involved with them, it's really changed my view on the profession.
I really hope my OH's solicitor can battle it out to get a half decent SHPO as I can see SS doubling down, even though in my SW's own words said that they know my child is safe. Just have to wait and see.
hope you're doing okay xx
Hi, my ex downloaded a huge file with had Cat A in it. He claimed he didn't open that file. The Solicitor said it didn't matter whether he did or didn't. He downloaded it, end of. SS's see it the same way. X