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Struggling with bail conditions

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Dawn19

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June 2023

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We've had the bail conditions set for over a year. The solicitor has managed to get one part changed and my OH is allowed to sleep at home. Now my 16 year old daughter has finished school, she is home more and my OH has to find something to do while I'm at work as he isn't allowed unsupervised contact with anyone under 18. I know it is his doing but I feel guilty that he has to be out, especially since he should be at home doing housework and making meals. I'm finding it very tough as it is tiring supervising him with our daughter. It won't be so bad when I break up for the summer holidays (I work in a school and don't work the school holidays), but I've got another 3 and a half weeks of this.

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Quietlife

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Distressed and pregnant

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November 2020

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Could you perhaps have a chat to your daughter to try and work out a rota type thing so it's more evenly split between your husband and your daughter being in the house? Maybe she could stay with your older daughter a couple of nights a week? xxx

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Distressed and pregnant

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Dawn19

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June 2023

165 posts

Hi distressed, she's stubborn and just acting like a teenager lol. Her boyfriend is away at the moment or she would go to his house, it'll be a lot better when he's back. Trouble is she hasn't got her friendship group from school anymore as she has sorted of fell out of touch with them, so she can't make plans with them. She's just been moping around the house this last week waiting for her boyfriend to come back.

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Upset mum

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June 2020

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Evening Dawn

It's so difficult isn't it, do you have a close family member that would be able to come over for a few hours a couple of times until you finish for the school holidays? X

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