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PetrifiedMum

Member since
April 2022

35 posts

I can't do this anymore, my suicidal thoughts are through the roof. It's my daughters 3rd birthday next week and this all started when she was 9 months old.

why is our bail getting constantly extended?
why does our solicitor who we've paid thousands for not even talk to us

This is living hell and I don't know how much more of this I can take

Posted Mon July 15, 2024 12:35pmReport post

K4

Member since
October 2022

623 posts

Please reach out for some more support. I'm so so sorry you're going through this and that bail keeps being extended.



call the helpline?



have you a friend or family you can talk to?



You're welcome to DM me



please look after yourself





xxx

Posted Mon July 15, 2024 1:35pmReport post

Galaxy123

Member since
April 2024

75 posts

Hello Petrifieldmum

I'm really sorry you're going through this, and I want you to know you're not alone. reaching out for support to loved ones, the helpline, or your GP could make things better and there is always help available, feel free to message me too. Be strong, I am sore brighter days will come

Sending you a huge hug! Xx

Posted Mon July 15, 2024 1:38pmReport post

sadso

Member since
December 2023

139 posts

so sorry your feeling this way but completely understand ..its so sad ????...in my family members situation his mother had to call the lawyer and police and say she was so concerned for his mental well being they luckily gor the case heard within the year I guess we're fortunate that way but it's still a living nightmare but at least we're trying to move forward from it all now I get it will never be the same life but it's still life and your life is worth everything on this earth please reach out for some more support and contact the lawyer they have a duty of care to you also xxx

Posted Mon July 15, 2024 5:52pmReport post

PetrifiedMum

Member since
April 2022

35 posts

Thank you for your replies, really appreciate it!

K4 - thank you, it's horrible! Yes I will do and I do have family and friends that know, I have great support just can't talk to them about my mental health as they'll never really understand xx


Galaxy123 - thank you very much, I have been to my doctors today and have been prescribed anti depressants which is great I hope they do help some days are absolutely fine yesterday was a really bad day I was super struggling! Thank you xx



Sadso - thank you!! I'm glad to hear they got to it for you guys, we have mentioned that we are both struggling but still no contact from anyone involved. Exactly that, life will never be the same it's so depressing!! Really appreciate you thank you xx

Posted Tue July 16, 2024 3:06pmReport post

AnxiousGirl

Member since
December 2023

282 posts

I had very similar thoughts. I phoned the doctors who were great.

I doubt I would have gone through with it because of my kids. Think of your child - they need you xxx

Posted Tue July 16, 2024 3:18pmReport post

Quietlife

Member since
June 2024

44 posts

Petrifiedmum

I'm so sorry you have found yourself in this situation.

but, pleased you have approached your GP for help, take thing one day at a time, your tablets will take a couple of week to level out in your system - so please be kind to yourself and stay safe

xx

Posted Tue July 16, 2024 3:30pmReport post

T2021

Member since
December 2020

163 posts

Also been here for over 4 years now.
Not bail any more but RUI. It's so long. No further forward than the day of the knock. No communication.
sending love

Posted Thu July 25, 2024 7:32amReport post

Quick exit