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Hello everyone,
I have been reading posts here since we had the knock 3 years ago. I never posted here before because everytime I tried, I felt too unwell to finish the post.
First of all, I am so very sorry that you all are on this awful journey. I just wish I could take away all your worries.
3 years I have been living this nightmare, hoping it would go away but it hasn't. He attended magistrates on 11th July. He will be attending the crown court on 8th August. He doesn't want me to be there.
I am horrified of ramifications if it gets out on media. I think it is very likely because where we are from, the police have a facebook page and they always share court results.
I am so scared of my house being targeted or what to do if my other half goes to prison. I can't afford to live in our house without his earnings.
I am so sorry for posting negative things because I know you are all also dealing with the same worries.
Any good stories out there? Anyone few years down the line from post sentencing?
I met my husband at uni and I am originally from a different country. My family lives in my home country so I am so alone. I have no support network :(
I have been reading posts here since we had the knock 3 years ago. I never posted here before because everytime I tried, I felt too unwell to finish the post.
First of all, I am so very sorry that you all are on this awful journey. I just wish I could take away all your worries.
3 years I have been living this nightmare, hoping it would go away but it hasn't. He attended magistrates on 11th July. He will be attending the crown court on 8th August. He doesn't want me to be there.
I am horrified of ramifications if it gets out on media. I think it is very likely because where we are from, the police have a facebook page and they always share court results.
I am so scared of my house being targeted or what to do if my other half goes to prison. I can't afford to live in our house without his earnings.
I am so sorry for posting negative things because I know you are all also dealing with the same worries.
Any good stories out there? Anyone few years down the line from post sentencing?
I met my husband at uni and I am originally from a different country. My family lives in my home country so I am so alone. I have no support network :(
LonelyExpat, I'm in a very similar situation. I'm also from another country with no family close to me in the UK.
It's been a blessing and curse at the same time.
If you're happy to change your settings, I can pm you.
I'm scared most days as well, although in our case the investigation is still ongoing.
It's been a blessing and curse at the same time.
If you're happy to change your settings, I can pm you.
I'm scared most days as well, although in our case the investigation is still ongoing.
Hi LonelyExpat
I am from another country as well. I have no family close by and feel very much alone in all this.
We are two months past sentencing. I am happy to message you if you would like to talk.
This forum is full of wonderful woman and we are here for you x
I am from another country as well. I have no family close by and feel very much alone in all this.
We are two months past sentencing. I am happy to message you if you would like to talk.
This forum is full of wonderful woman and we are here for you x
Lonely, x
Firstly wellndone for posting I can sympathise on how difficult it has been for you x
Out minds are our own worst enemy we overthink of the what ifs don't we x
The one thing about having a court date means you will know what the outcome is and know what you have to deal with x
The media, custodial, are unfortunately things we have no control over,
Hopefully you will not experience the above and the outcome is suspended x
My sons case was in the media and that was my biggest fear, we have had no repercussions, and in all honesty I just stopped worrying about it as I couldn't change anything
No matter what happens you will get through this journey xx
Firstly wellndone for posting I can sympathise on how difficult it has been for you x
Out minds are our own worst enemy we overthink of the what ifs don't we x
The one thing about having a court date means you will know what the outcome is and know what you have to deal with x
The media, custodial, are unfortunately things we have no control over,
Hopefully you will not experience the above and the outcome is suspended x
My sons case was in the media and that was my biggest fear, we have had no repercussions, and in all honesty I just stopped worrying about it as I couldn't change anything
No matter what happens you will get through this journey xx
Hello all,
I resonate so much with your posts. I am in the same situation.
My partner and I are both from other countries I moved for my master and then remained here with him. No family and no friends. I sometime think its better, none know us so no questions around, but yes it feels extremly lonely and scary.
Feel free to text me if you want, we are here to support each other.
I resonate so much with your posts. I am in the same situation.
My partner and I are both from other countries I moved for my master and then remained here with him. No family and no friends. I sometime think its better, none know us so no questions around, but yes it feels extremly lonely and scary.
Feel free to text me if you want, we are here to support each other.
Hello lovely ladies,
Thank you all so very much for your replies. Really sorry you are all going through this. It is such an isolating thing to go through. I don't even want to meet friends because I feel like I am lying to them all the time. I think it would be invaluable to be able to talk to you all and it is great that this forum exists. I will have a look at my settings now and change them x
Thank you all so very much for your replies. Really sorry you are all going through this. It is such an isolating thing to go through. I don't even want to meet friends because I feel like I am lying to them all the time. I think it would be invaluable to be able to talk to you all and it is great that this forum exists. I will have a look at my settings now and change them x
Hey all,
Another 'foreigner' here. Feel free to pm me x
Another 'foreigner' here. Feel free to pm me x