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Hope you are all doing as well as can be x
The weather! I love the sunshine but this stifling heat is not good , last night I just couldn't sleep, my brain was in overdrive, the last time I checked the time was 12:15 I get up at 04:45 so glad its Friday and I have next week of , no plans other than the furbaby from Weds
This week has just flown by, Aug already!
HC has been under the weather (covid is doing its rounds again) on Thursday they had the electricity turned of from 17:00 -22;00 , 758 men in their cells, no ventilation fans , no tv, or phones, thankfully he does like reading, hopefully he will be able to call me later x
Other than that we are all doing ok x
I read this earlier so I wanted to share with you all x
Be proud of yourself
For passing your hardest
Moments alone while
Everyone believed you
Were fine,
Amazing ladies xx
Love sent as always x
Hope you are all doing as well as can be x
The weather! I love the sunshine but this stifling heat is not good , last night I just couldn't sleep, my brain was in overdrive, the last time I checked the time was 12:15 I get up at 04:45 so glad its Friday and I have next week of , no plans other than the furbaby from Weds
This week has just flown by, Aug already!
HC has been under the weather (covid is doing its rounds again) on Thursday they had the electricity turned of from 17:00 -22;00 , 758 men in their cells, no ventilation fans , no tv, or phones, thankfully he does like reading, hopefully he will be able to call me later x
Other than that we are all doing ok x
I read this earlier so I wanted to share with you all x
Be proud of yourself
For passing your hardest
Moments alone while
Everyone believed you
Were fine,
Amazing ladies xx
Love sent as always x
This week has been so stressful... Hubby had to go to the police station this morning for a so called update on the investigation (we all know what that really means) The OIC charged him but also admitted that she was surprised cps pressed charges as they don't actually have any evidence to provide in court. The only reason he was charged is because he decided to tell his story in interview instead of giving a no comment interview. OIC said if he had gone with a no comment interview it would have been NFA as they literally have nothing. You can imagine how frustrated we both are this afternoon. Date set for plea hearing which he will be pleading not guilty and hopefully it will all get chucked out before it goes to trial.
Hope you all have a lovely chilled weekend I'm currently enjoying a nice cold glass of wine to chill my frustration xx
Hope you all have a lovely chilled weekend I'm currently enjoying a nice cold glass of wine to chill my frustration xx
Bub
Enjoy the glass or bottle of wine x
Honestly nothing suprises me with the police they are the ones who send the information to the CPS , the OIC in my sons case told us it will be all done in the next 6 -8 weeks! 19 months later!
I really do hope you get an NFA
The most important thing is you look after your wellbeing both of you xx
Enjoy the glass or bottle of wine x
Honestly nothing suprises me with the police they are the ones who send the information to the CPS , the OIC in my sons case told us it will be all done in the next 6 -8 weeks! 19 months later!
I really do hope you get an NFA
The most important thing is you look after your wellbeing both of you xx
Even though he's been charged it does feel like a massive weight has been lifted we just wish he went no comment but hey it's done now and we are finally another step closer to the end of this nightmare. Xx
Hi ladies - yes this weather has been sweltering and so uncomfortable at night.
ive enjoyed being outside, now got quite a nice (but sensible) suntan!
Like your HC my son has been off colour and suffered a bout of sunstroke which I think he found quite frightening at the time. Thankfully all ok now.
Ive felt sad reading lots of posts on the forum this week so can I send you all a 'group hug' x
ive enjoyed being outside, now got quite a nice (but sensible) suntan!
Like your HC my son has been off colour and suffered a bout of sunstroke which I think he found quite frightening at the time. Thankfully all ok now.
Ive felt sad reading lots of posts on the forum this week so can I send you all a 'group hug' x
Not the best of weeks for me this week. I found out the person I'd thought of as my best friend since our teenage years isn't the person I thought she was.
Thankfully I've still got my family and the grandchildren are now staying with us for the holidays. So lots of fun to be had.
I'm loving the sun and heat and being able to walk into the sea to cool down. I've now got a week of work so am hoping the good weather continues
Thankfully I've still got my family and the grandchildren are now staying with us for the holidays. So lots of fun to be had.
I'm loving the sun and heat and being able to walk into the sea to cool down. I've now got a week of work so am hoping the good weather continues
Ocean x
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Sorry to hear that you're not coping in the heat, upset, and that your friend has let you down, ocean.
Sorry also about the frustration of your OH's charges, bubs
big Friday hugs and a cold glass of something lovely to you all
xx
Sorry also about the frustration of your OH's charges, bubs
big Friday hugs and a cold glass of something lovely to you all
xx
Hi. This week is the first week of my summer holidays. Our youngest daughter has been on a residential this week. She met new people (which she said she wanted to do) and had a go at all the activities. She joined up with a 'friend' from school who started to be nasty towards our daughter while away, but luckily she made a few friends.
We took our granddaughter for her first visit to the seaside yesterday (with our other daughter obviously). So nice to have some sea air and our granddaughter was spoilt with tasting sorbet, ice cream, slushy and even the froth and chocolate on top of my cappuccino.
My OH registered at the police station on Monday, then received a visit from the police on Tuesday to issue a warning. They had more information to pass on to him but we were pushed for time as he had an appointment that he couldn't get out of, so they have arranged for him to go the police station instead. We are trying to cooperate as much as we can, but if they had popped round 10 minutes later we would have been out.
We took our granddaughter for her first visit to the seaside yesterday (with our other daughter obviously). So nice to have some sea air and our granddaughter was spoilt with tasting sorbet, ice cream, slushy and even the froth and chocolate on top of my cappuccino.
My OH registered at the police station on Monday, then received a visit from the police on Tuesday to issue a warning. They had more information to pass on to him but we were pushed for time as he had an appointment that he couldn't get out of, so they have arranged for him to go the police station instead. We are trying to cooperate as much as we can, but if they had popped round 10 minutes later we would have been out.
K4 x
How are you doing? x
How are you doing? x
Upset mum, sounds like you are doing the night feeds like me. X
Dawn x
Your youngest sounds so lovely, she will flourish in her own way, she has you both behind her x
This journey really is horrendous x for me I just am in awe of you ladies that juggle work and younger children, grandchildren x
It's so unfair OH was issued a warning, no one explains the do's and don'ts do they?
Your youngest sounds so lovely, she will flourish in her own way, she has you both behind her x
This journey really is horrendous x for me I just am in awe of you ladies that juggle work and younger children, grandchildren x
It's so unfair OH was issued a warning, no one explains the do's and don'ts do they?
Thank you Upset. Our youngest did come home in a bit of a grumpy mood cos we had gone to the seaside without her and she thought she was missing out. We will be going to the seaside again over the summer so she will be coming with us.
I should have got him to contact the solicitor the day after his court appearance for more advice, especially since we didn't see him again at court, but my OH thinks he can't ask questions as he feels he might come across as being difficult. I keep telling him he is being ridiculous but it's the way he is as he has never been in trouble before.
I should have got him to contact the solicitor the day after his court appearance for more advice, especially since we didn't see him again at court, but my OH thinks he can't ask questions as he feels he might come across as being difficult. I keep telling him he is being ridiculous but it's the way he is as he has never been in trouble before.
Dawn x
Grumpy teenagers never:-)
We do our best to please everyone and yet we forget the person we are dont we x
Grumpy teenagers never:-)
We do our best to please everyone and yet we forget the person we are dont we x
Hello Friday Check in,
I've enjoyed reading your posts sharing a bit about your weeks. I'm sad to hear some of you are struggling. Losing long time friends has been one of the hardest things I've experienced along the way.
My week has been a mix of good and not so good. The good is that I took three days off work. Went to the beach with my mom and my boys. Also, had a really nice visit with my sister.
Not so good, went with my husband to a lawyer appointment and he wants us to prepare for likely jail time. Next day went to psychologist appt and read her 30 page report. It was a good report, but still so hard to read.
Hope you all have a good week!
I've enjoyed reading your posts sharing a bit about your weeks. I'm sad to hear some of you are struggling. Losing long time friends has been one of the hardest things I've experienced along the way.
My week has been a mix of good and not so good. The good is that I took three days off work. Went to the beach with my mom and my boys. Also, had a really nice visit with my sister.
Not so good, went with my husband to a lawyer appointment and he wants us to prepare for likely jail time. Next day went to psychologist appt and read her 30 page report. It was a good report, but still so hard to read.
Hope you all have a good week!
Hello friday check in. I am away hence the time posting. It is still friday where I am.
I am sorry to hear about your friend Ocean. A week and a half after my OH arrest a friend of 34 years dropped me. She was my best friend. At this point my husband had been arrested and remanded so we had nil details to his guilt so for all she knew he coukd have been innocent. I am glad you have your family to keep you busy.
This journey can be so hard sometimes and i am sorry to hear in this thread of peoples struggles.
My week has been good. I am away at a family wedding, but i am here with my daughter but my OH could not go as its abroad. Though a happy day it also reminded me that it is a gift thst keeps giving. So it has been a strange time.
So here is to a good week.
I am sorry to hear about your friend Ocean. A week and a half after my OH arrest a friend of 34 years dropped me. She was my best friend. At this point my husband had been arrested and remanded so we had nil details to his guilt so for all she knew he coukd have been innocent. I am glad you have your family to keep you busy.
This journey can be so hard sometimes and i am sorry to hear in this thread of peoples struggles.
My week has been good. I am away at a family wedding, but i am here with my daughter but my OH could not go as its abroad. Though a happy day it also reminded me that it is a gift thst keeps giving. So it has been a strange time.
So here is to a good week.
Good morning all, I just wanted to introduce myself. I've been lurking on this forum for the past week and decided to finally make an account. I've found so much comfort here as this has been the most isolating and soul destroying process, not helped by the length of time it takes to receive updates or any sort of information from the police.
Some positives this week were arranging counselling for myself as I've had to come to terms with the fact I'm not coping well. And both of my children spent some of the week with nanny and grandad, getting spoilt and enjoying the sunshine. My person and I are no longer together but are in contact regarding supervised visits. He's taking the youngest out tomorrow which should be nice, I'm just bracing myself for the inevitable tears once it's over and questions asking why daddy isn't living at home anymore.
Love to you all x
Some positives this week were arranging counselling for myself as I've had to come to terms with the fact I'm not coping well. And both of my children spent some of the week with nanny and grandad, getting spoilt and enjoying the sunshine. My person and I are no longer together but are in contact regarding supervised visits. He's taking the youngest out tomorrow which should be nice, I'm just bracing myself for the inevitable tears once it's over and questions asking why daddy isn't living at home anymore.
Love to you all x