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Sisyphus

Member since
October 2019

12 posts

Posted Tue October 29, 2019 9:40amReport post

I just got the knock yesterday. I feel very alone

qwertyju

Member since
April 2019

4 posts

Posted Tue October 29, 2019 9:51amReport post

Hi Sisyphus, you are not alone, we are all here to support you xx

Sisyphus

Member since
October 2019

12 posts

Posted Tue October 29, 2019 10:00amReport post

Did you ever see that episode of Black Mirror with Exit music by Radiohead at the end? I've had that so g stuck in my head for the last day.

Sisyphus

Member since
October 2019

12 posts

Posted Tue October 29, 2019 1:05pmReport post

It was communication and an arrangement to meet. He is my partner. We have a child together

mjl73

Member since
August 2019

240 posts

Posted Tue October 29, 2019 6:14pmReport post

Hi, sorry that you'd joined this club that none of us want to be in. My husband pleaded guilty to the same a couple of months ago. I'm not sure anything prepares you for the shock that comes with that knock. It's only now that I'm beginning to get my head around it all.



Right now just take it one day at a time, everyone on here is so supportive so do keep coming back. Although I never spoke to the helpline, others say that are amazing especially if you want to talk to someone who isn't going to be judgemental.

Fairandlovely

Member since
October 2019

33 posts

Posted Tue October 29, 2019 9:49pmReport post

Really feel for you... you have come to the right place people here are so supportive and non judgemental. Take each day at a time, sending big hug x

Sisyphus

Member since
October 2019

12 posts

Posted Wed October 30, 2019 10:27amReport post

I feel so utterly abandoned. Both my partner and his ex have been contacted by social services but I haven't. Im already u der the safeguard g team as my son, and I were already suicidal. The only support I have was my partner. My son isn't even in school as he was given an inappropriate school place (he has autism, dyspraxia, is violent and depressed. He talks about death daily and you get to the point where you just don't wanna see that suffering any more). So we've been left all alone. My social worker hasn't been in touch, the police haven't been in touch with me. Is this normal?

Fairandlovely

Member since
October 2019

33 posts

Posted Wed October 30, 2019 8:52pmReport post

Please see your GP, also do contact your local School Nursing Team who will be able to help you with your son, ask GP for an urgent referral to CAMHS for your son he needs urgent emotional health. Its very hard to carry on when your world is falling apart but you have to keep taking baby steps it will get better

xxx