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Future

Member since
October 2019

1 post

Posted Wed October 30, 2019 11:32amReport post

My story is thus - I have been found to have indecent images on my phone and whilst I genuinely cannot recall downloading them I must have some involvement so at my pretrial on Friday I will plead guilty. I don't want to put my broken family through the stress of a trial next year when one child should be doing GCSEs, and increased likelihood of media coverage. I love my family and am doing everything required of me by law. My questions are: any advice on the best ways to maintain and develop contact with family? My partner says she won't divorce me but she can't see we'd ever live together again and if she finds someone else then we're through. Any advice on trying to rebuild our relationship - is it even possible? Anything else I can do to try to rebuild my life and the life of my family? Thanks in advance

Hilltop478

Member since
September 2019

100 posts

Posted Wed October 30, 2019 9:31pmReport post

Hi Future. This forum is aimed more at Friends and Families of offenders or people accused of these sorts of things. Maybe try the helpline see if they can advise you. Best of luck. X

Lucy from Stop it Now!

Member since
September 2018

443 posts

Posted Fri November 1, 2019 10:22amReport post

Hello Future


Thank you for your post. Understandably, I can see that you have a lot of questions about your current situation and your relationship with your family.


For your information, and as another user has pointed out, this forum is for family and friends of individuals who have viewed or have been accused of viewing indecent images of children.

However, as an organisation we would like to support and advise you as best we can. With this mind, I really encourage you to call our Stop It Now! Helpline on 0808 1000 900, so that we can talk your situation through in more detail.


Take care
Lucy