CPS and unbelievable stress
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Hi, my ex's case went to the CPS 4 months ago and we haven't heard anything. He was arrested 2 1/2 years ago. The wait is traumatising. How are we meant to cope? My poor Autistic son, now 19, is going to lose his Dad all over again because this is the second time we've been through this. The first knock was 7 years ago when my son was 12. On that occasion we were treated to several Police going through our entire home for 4 hours.
I understand that we are irrelevant in this saga, that the Justice system doesn't care about us but the wait is doing me in. I've had such a difficult week with my ex telling me that he reoffended because he was having a hard time with a particular situation between myself and my adult daughters. For the last 2 1/2 yrs he's told me he wasn't really sure how he came to reoffend saying that his phone automatically logged onto his brothers WiFi from when he visited before and it just happened. I knew it was rubbish but I really feel that he's trying to shift the blame onto me. It's exhausting. I'm probably not making much sense. Much love to you all. Xx
I understand that we are irrelevant in this saga, that the Justice system doesn't care about us but the wait is doing me in. I've had such a difficult week with my ex telling me that he reoffended because he was having a hard time with a particular situation between myself and my adult daughters. For the last 2 1/2 yrs he's told me he wasn't really sure how he came to reoffend saying that his phone automatically logged onto his brothers WiFi from when he visited before and it just happened. I knew it was rubbish but I really feel that he's trying to shift the blame onto me. It's exhausting. I'm probably not making much sense. Much love to you all. Xx
It's horrendous, I'm so sorry. I have no trust left. I'm very early on in the process and can't imagine how you're feeling. Sending a hug xx