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Met last night with OH, his parents and my Dad came along to support me. Despite no charge being made SS are very involved. OH not allowed home at the moment. Very clear evidence of grooming but not enough to go to court apparently.
I was hopeful that some answers would be given but no... The evening turned into a personal attack on me and how dreadful I am. No answers - apparently can't remember anything messaged or done.
My lovely children and I are victims amongst all of this. Yet it feels like I've done wrong because of how I'm being treated. When did you decide enough was enough. I can't take anymore heartache. Did any of you struggle to say I'm finished because I am and I really don't know why.
I was hopeful that some answers would be given but no... The evening turned into a personal attack on me and how dreadful I am. No answers - apparently can't remember anything messaged or done.
My lovely children and I are victims amongst all of this. Yet it feels like I've done wrong because of how I'm being treated. When did you decide enough was enough. I can't take anymore heartache. Did any of you struggle to say I'm finished because I am and I really don't know why.
Sparkle
Sorry to read your post. I am in a similar situation. I have no family but his family seem to think I am the one causing the problems. Despite my best efforts over many months I have concluded that I don't want to live with him anymore. He is vague about his level of guilt which I see as denial. He is going to plead guilty. I have done nothing wrong. I don't see recent events as a minor issue in our relationship but certain members of his family describe it as a 'mistake' or 'hiccup' or 'bump in the road'. Like you this all makes me feel sick to the stomach. Stay strong. Big hugs.
Sorry to read your post. I am in a similar situation. I have no family but his family seem to think I am the one causing the problems. Despite my best efforts over many months I have concluded that I don't want to live with him anymore. He is vague about his level of guilt which I see as denial. He is going to plead guilty. I have done nothing wrong. I don't see recent events as a minor issue in our relationship but certain members of his family describe it as a 'mistake' or 'hiccup' or 'bump in the road'. Like you this all makes me feel sick to the stomach. Stay strong. Big hugs.