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I just had a chat with OH because he thinks I'm not responsible for the bail condtion to be respect it.
He can't be alone with the kids or taking them alone without an adult.
Do someone is experiencing the same? Where the bail conditions doesn't link you with the kids?
He is not allowed to reside or sleep with us.
Any advice please ?
Thanks
I just had a chat with OH because he thinks I'm not responsible for the bail condtion to be respect it.
He can't be alone with the kids or taking them alone without an adult.
Do someone is experiencing the same? Where the bail conditions doesn't link you with the kids?
He is not allowed to reside or sleep with us.
Any advice please ?
Thanks
Hi
he's sort of right. He is responsible for meeting his bail conditions and following them. However if you as the non-offending and protecting parent don't also ensure he follows them (or report him if he doesn't) then social services will have a lot to say about that and may remove ANY access because you aren't taking the risk to children seriously. They may also consider that you are not being a protective parent. If he tries to bend the rules you just have to be stern and tell him that you'll be informing or checking with social services/the police first before taking his word for it. Bail conditions are very strict rules and you can't just pick and choose when you follow them You need to protect you and your children first.....whether he agrees or not. Anything that sounds like it might be dubious or your unsure if they're covered by bail conditions please check because if he doesn't follow them and breaks bail it's back to the police station and consequences.
he's sort of right. He is responsible for meeting his bail conditions and following them. However if you as the non-offending and protecting parent don't also ensure he follows them (or report him if he doesn't) then social services will have a lot to say about that and may remove ANY access because you aren't taking the risk to children seriously. They may also consider that you are not being a protective parent. If he tries to bend the rules you just have to be stern and tell him that you'll be informing or checking with social services/the police first before taking his word for it. Bail conditions are very strict rules and you can't just pick and choose when you follow them You need to protect you and your children first.....whether he agrees or not. Anything that sounds like it might be dubious or your unsure if they're covered by bail conditions please check because if he doesn't follow them and breaks bail it's back to the police station and consequences.