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So this is my third post on here I think. Just popping in to get my thoughts out.
Well not much has changed ( as some of you lovely people may know my person was chatting to other people behind my back) well bar the police trying to find out the age of one of the other girls they were talking too, to make sure she was of legal age.....
My person has been rebailed until bonfire night, and social services are still crawling all over us ???? I'm massively broken.
Police and solicitor say they will be in touch when there's an update, but haven't said what kind of update. I need to know what's going to happen, what's happening. I need my questions answered. My first thoughts are they will only inform him when it goes to cps.... but surely they have to inform him if they find the age of this other person first? I don't know, I still can't wrap my head around how it all works.
Can someone please just wake me up from this nightmare I'm living. ????????
I'm still trying to figure out what and how I complain about the officers that were made aware I was vulnerable and left on the side of the road in a city I don't know. Will they even do anything about it?still constantly feeling like every move I'm making every journey I take etc I'm being watched, I'm still jumpy and petrified of my own shadow, but that's to be expected with my now ptsd.
Surely cps will need better evidence than what's there ( they'd have to use their imagination to know, but my person claims it wasn't meant in that way but who knows cause I dont, and that it was just innuendos) before they can press charges?
I can't begin to repair my self until I know what I'm facing. Praying for the phone back still as I need the pictures from there of my children and grandfather.
Hope you've all managed to enjoy your holidays.
Well not much has changed ( as some of you lovely people may know my person was chatting to other people behind my back) well bar the police trying to find out the age of one of the other girls they were talking too, to make sure she was of legal age.....
My person has been rebailed until bonfire night, and social services are still crawling all over us ???? I'm massively broken.
Police and solicitor say they will be in touch when there's an update, but haven't said what kind of update. I need to know what's going to happen, what's happening. I need my questions answered. My first thoughts are they will only inform him when it goes to cps.... but surely they have to inform him if they find the age of this other person first? I don't know, I still can't wrap my head around how it all works.
Can someone please just wake me up from this nightmare I'm living. ????????
I'm still trying to figure out what and how I complain about the officers that were made aware I was vulnerable and left on the side of the road in a city I don't know. Will they even do anything about it?still constantly feeling like every move I'm making every journey I take etc I'm being watched, I'm still jumpy and petrified of my own shadow, but that's to be expected with my now ptsd.
Surely cps will need better evidence than what's there ( they'd have to use their imagination to know, but my person claims it wasn't meant in that way but who knows cause I dont, and that it was just innuendos) before they can press charges?
I can't begin to repair my self until I know what I'm facing. Praying for the phone back still as I need the pictures from there of my children and grandfather.
Hope you've all managed to enjoy your holidays.
Hello,
Thank you for posting on the Family and Friends Forum, we understand that it is not easy to post on a forum about these difficult situations. I can see that you have not yet had a reply on your post, hopefully someone else in a similar situation can reply soon with some support.
If you haven't already done so, I would also encourage you to contact our Stop it Now helpline. The helpline is anonymous, confidential and free, on 0808 1000 900. One of our trained advisors will then be able to explore your situation in detail and provide some support and do their best to answer your questions. Our trained advisors deal with similar concerns to yours every day and will be able to talk these through with you and offer you the best advice we can.
I hope this has been helpful.
Take care,
Lucy
Thank you for posting on the Family and Friends Forum, we understand that it is not easy to post on a forum about these difficult situations. I can see that you have not yet had a reply on your post, hopefully someone else in a similar situation can reply soon with some support.
If you haven't already done so, I would also encourage you to contact our Stop it Now helpline. The helpline is anonymous, confidential and free, on 0808 1000 900. One of our trained advisors will then be able to explore your situation in detail and provide some support and do their best to answer your questions. Our trained advisors deal with similar concerns to yours every day and will be able to talk these through with you and offer you the best advice we can.
I hope this has been helpful.
Take care,
Lucy