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Just stopping by to introduce myself. I have been reading some of the posts and so many people are in the same situation as me. My OH has his court date for tomorrow and I'm dreading the outcome. I am preparing for the worst! I feel sick every time I think of what could happen tomorrow. My emotions are all ove the place. At the moment I am trying to support my OH as best I can but starting to suffer with my own Mental Health. I just want tomorrow over with now.
The days leading up to court are so hard as you try to prepare for the unknown. It's great that you are supporting your OH but you need to look after yourself too. You don't say whether it's plea hearing or sentencing tomorrow but I wish you the best possible outcome whichever one it is.
My Dog x
Sending strength and hugs to both for tomorrow x
Its only natural to feel how you are now and it's an awful feeling as we all know what you are going through
You have absolutely got this and you will get through it xx
Sending strength and hugs to both for tomorrow x
Its only natural to feel how you are now and it's an awful feeling as we all know what you are going through
You have absolutely got this and you will get through it xx
Thanks for the lovely comments. It really does help having people here who understand and don't judge . Sorry I should've said it is the sentencing tomorrow. I'm a nervous wreck at the moment and will be glad when tomorrow is over, maybe then I can start to concentrate on myself.
My Dog, thinking of you today. Sentencing is terrifying so I'm there with you holding your hand. You've got this and will soon be out the other side.
Thinking of you today xxx
We are all with you today. There are not many people you can tell,but we have all had this horrible experience too. We are sat in that court with you.
Virtual hand holding.
Virtual hand holding.
Thinking of you today xx
Thinking of you today. Xx
My dog xx
Hope you are ok, been thinking of you both x
Hope you are ok, been thinking of you both x
Thanks all. He is home! He got an 18 month Suspended Sentence for 2 years and 180 hours community service. It was the worst day ever yesterday but we have got through this part and hopefully the future will be brighter.
look to the future now wishing you all the best in recovering from this nightmare xx
You're now out the other side and on the road to recovery. I wish you both all the best for the future.
My Dog x
As hard as it was at least you have an outcome so another part of this journey can mean you can concentrate on the road ahead, it will have a few bumps along the way but you will both navigate through it
Take some time to now just do something for yourselves,
Sending you both hugs xx
As hard as it was at least you have an outcome so another part of this journey can mean you can concentrate on the road ahead, it will have a few bumps along the way but you will both navigate through it
Take some time to now just do something for yourselves,
Sending you both hugs xx
I am so grateful to all of you for your kind encouraging words. This forum has helped me so much knowing that we are all going through the same thing. My mum is the only one who has supported myself and my husband throughout this. My sister, brother in law, nephews etc have all turned their backs on me. They wanted me to walk away from my husband and I wasn't going to just give up. I know it's going to take a while for me to heal from the betrayal, pain, anxiety etc but I will get there. I look forward to our future together and hoping it will be in the past sooner rather than later. Love to you all xx
I'm happy it went well!
Might ask you if there is any register for him and if any restrictions around children's etc?
Thank you
Might ask you if there is any register for him and if any restrictions around children's etc?
Thank you
Yes he's on the SHPO. And no unattended contact with children. Sorry only just answering but trying to sort stuff out and get our lives back on track a little.