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Hi, I just don't know what to do, been crying all day, my ex husband was sentenced 4 months ago and all the supervision is in play. Toda I had his father on the phone shouting at me saying he doesn't see her enough and I'm stopping her seeing him more and I'm not thinking about my daughter! That's all I think about is her and her happiness and safety.
He now threatening me saying if he can't see her more he's going to report me to social services saying I'm not a good mother. I'm not going to give in to his threats so I don't know what to do, do I wait for him to make up lies and them know my door, or should I phone them and tell them about his threats? I can't believe he's doing this, hasn't his son done enough to me! So scared.
He now threatening me saying if he can't see her more he's going to report me to social services saying I'm not a good mother. I'm not going to give in to his threats so I don't know what to do, do I wait for him to make up lies and them know my door, or should I phone them and tell them about his threats? I can't believe he's doing this, hasn't his son done enough to me! So scared.
When I say he, I mean my ex husband
I'm so sorry you are going through such a difficult time Cher and from the sounds of it you are doing everything you can for your daughter. If your father in law feels he does not see his granddaughter enough, this does not equate to you being a poor mother. I am not surprised You are scared, you have lost so much and your daughter is your priority, him threatening you in this manner is horrendous and so unfair.
I hope some of the mothers here can be of help with regards to advice on what to do and if you should inform social services. I just wanted to say that you sound like a lovely caring mum with her daughters interests at heart. I hope things work out for you xx
I hope some of the mothers here can be of help with regards to advice on what to do and if you should inform social services. I just wanted to say that you sound like a lovely caring mum with her daughters interests at heart. I hope things work out for you xx
Cher - you need to do what you think is right and don’t let anyone bully you. It must be exhausting for you but you sound like you are doing a great job x
Thanks for your replies, I'm going to speak to his criminal management guy today to let him know what's going on. Trouble is his dad just see his son and not the paedophile he is, he needs to stop thinking of him as just his son and remember the discussing things he's done.