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Galaxy123

Member since
April 2024

70 posts

Posted Thu September 26, 2024 3:08pmReport post

Hello all,

I wasn’t sure whether to post this or not, but tomorrow is the day! Exactly six months have passed since the knock, and I know many of you have being in limbo for years. I am sure you will agree that whatever time you spend waiting is a nightmare.

My OH's solicitor and barrister are expecting a suspended sentence, but they also say Pepare for the worst, hope for the best. We need to do a prison bag today, just in case. I know tomorrow will be the scariest experience I will ever have. If my OH goes to prison, I will be completely alone in this country, and that is terrifying too. I try to stay positive, keep my mind as busy as I can, and I pray everything will be fine.

lostinthewoods

Member since
September 2024

53 posts

Posted Thu September 26, 2024 3:26pmReport post

We will all be thinking of you tomorrow and hoping for the best outcome. Xx

LisaMargeMaggie

Member since
July 2024

112 posts

Posted Thu September 26, 2024 3:46pmReport post

Sending a huge hug and handhold. Whatever the timings it must be terrifying. Do you mind me asking what the charges are?

hpl111

Member since
November 2022

402 posts

Posted Thu September 26, 2024 4:15pmReport post

all the best for tomorrow xx

Dawn19

Member since
June 2023

155 posts

Posted Thu September 26, 2024 4:31pmReport post

All the best for tomorrow xx

Pinkey2019

Member since
July 2022

49 posts

Posted Thu September 26, 2024 4:38pmReport post

All the best for tomorrow xx

Ocean

Member since
September 2023

796 posts

Posted Thu September 26, 2024 4:44pmReport post

Sending you both strength and support for tomorrow and praying for a good outcome. You're not alone, we'll be there beside you holding you up.

Runawaygirl

Member since
March 2023

89 posts

Posted Thu September 26, 2024 7:16pmReport post

Hope all goes well tomorrow x

Galaxy123

Member since
April 2024

70 posts

Posted Thu September 26, 2024 7:31pmReport post

Thank you all with all my heart! It feels less lonely and I know understand my feelings. I will update you tomorrow.

Distressed and pregnant

Member since
November 2020

1046 posts

Posted Thu September 26, 2024 9:32pmReport post

Will be thinking of you tomorrow xxx

PrairieMom

Member since
May 2024

83 posts

Posted Thu September 26, 2024 10:07pmReport post

I'll be thinking of you tomorrow.

Lostandalone

Member since
September 2024

30 posts

Posted Thu September 26, 2024 10:48pmReport post

Sending all the support and love

Seaside

Member since
July 2022

567 posts

Posted Thu September 26, 2024 10:49pmReport post

I will be thinking of you tomorrow xx

EllBee

Member since
April 2022

148 posts

Posted Thu September 26, 2024 11:04pmReport post

Big hug Galaxy X

AnxiousGirl

Member since
December 2023

238 posts

Posted Thu September 26, 2024 11:48pmReport post

Will be thinking of you.

Chelsea 1

Member since
June 2021

891 posts

Posted Fri September 27, 2024 12:01amReport post

Good luck and Big ((hugs)).

Smile through tears

Member since
September 2021

2603 posts

Posted Fri September 27, 2024 4:18amReport post

Wish you well........ - you are not alone - we are here for you my lovely x

Caggie164

Member since
October 2023

275 posts

Posted Fri September 27, 2024 6:32amReport post

Thinking about you today x

Bub84

Member since
January 2024

117 posts

Posted Fri September 27, 2024 7:07amReport post

Thinking about you today and I'm hoping for the best outcome for you xx

Overwhelmed49

Member since
April 2024

46 posts

Posted Fri September 27, 2024 9:13amReport post

Thinking of you today xxx

EBP

Member since
September 2021

211 posts

Posted Fri September 27, 2024 11:15amReport post

Hope it's a positive outcome. We are ther holding your hand & giving a supportive hug x

Galaxy123

Member since
April 2024

70 posts

Posted Fri September 27, 2024 4:22pmReport post

Hello all! Thank you for all your messages. I wanted to give you an update. We are finally done - my OH got a high community order, with unpaid work and horizon. The barrister was quite surprise because we were expecting a suspended. I am so relieved and happy it's all over.

hpl111

Member since
November 2022

402 posts

Posted Fri September 27, 2024 4:25pmReport post

Galaxy123, that's fantastic, I bet you must feel so relieved. Can I ask what his charges were? xx

lostinthewoods

Member since
September 2024

53 posts

Posted Fri September 27, 2024 4:47pmReport post

So pleased for you! What a relief that must be xx

Caggie164

Member since
October 2023

275 posts

Posted Fri September 27, 2024 6:03pmReport post

So pleased for you. Such a relief xx

Devastated_mum

Member since
July 2024

49 posts

Posted Fri September 27, 2024 6:09pmReport post

Glad you had a positive outcome

LisaMargeMaggie

Member since
July 2024

112 posts

Posted Fri September 27, 2024 6:49pmReport post

Oh what a relief. You must both be exhausted and relieved. Do take time to recover x

Holdingthegrenade

Member since
June 2024

151 posts

Posted Sat September 28, 2024 9:55amReport post

Thank goodness galaxy

I was checking in all yesterday to see how you got on. I hope it allows you to try get some level or normal back so you can heal. At least you've gained back some control because you now know what you're facing. Well done you've been so strong to get to this in (sort of) one piece. Stay strong ladies (and the odd few gents who find themselves here supporting family).

EBP

Member since
September 2021

211 posts

Posted Sat September 28, 2024 9:58amReport post

Good result. So pleased for you all.

Upset mum

Member since
June 2020

2425 posts

Posted Sat September 28, 2024 3:00pmReport post

A huge relief for you both x

Take some time to recharge xx