Why won’t he discuss it?
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my OH was caught reoffending in a police sting and he's been arrested for attempted communication with a minor but it now appears that he requested photos is he likly to be sent back to prison. I have tried to discuss with him why he's done it again after 10 years but he just shouts at me and tells me to stop going on about it as he doesn't want to discuss it. I don't think he truly understands how much hurt and upset he's actually caused or the fact that I feel I need to discuss it so I know what to expect when it goes to court and it all comes out my mind is in complete turmoil over what will happen I am so scared of repercussions and the effect it will have on me and his mother again(he wasn't with me when he offended the first time)
He certainly doesn't sound like he's willing to take any responsibility at all for the terrible distress he's caused to those around him.
I'd definitely agree that he isn't taking responsibility or taking your feelings into consideration. I hope that you are able to seek support from the helpline soon xxx