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When should I come off social media?

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LittleRobin3

Member since
April 2024

294 posts

Posted Sun October 20, 2024 6:36pmReport post

Hi, the ex has his pre sentencing probation meeting this week so I guess Crown Court will be soon? When should I come off Social Media? Last time the case was plastered everywhere by the Police 6 weeks after sentencing. I'm terrified. When it's advised that we should, "come off" social media, does that mean just don't log on or delete the account entirely? Thanks. X

Ocean

Member since
September 2023

775 posts

Posted Sun October 20, 2024 8:08pmReport post

I came off of social media the day before court. There was the option to suspend the account so I did that. My sons case was on line and in the local paper after both magistrates court and crown court but I chose not to read them.

In time we'll be looking at trying to get the online stories removed but for now we try to forget they exist.

edel2020

Member since
March 2022

375 posts

Posted Mon October 21, 2024 11:58amReport post

There are lots of different options on the different platforms. Disable, delete, suspend etc. They do different things so check the settings carefully.

You want to make sure that whatever you do, it removes all photos, so the media have nothing they can use. Obviously you also want to stop anyone commenting on the account or trying to contact you or any of your family.

Personnally, I would delete everything as soon as possible, as there is always a chance rumours might come out, even before it gets to the court.

LittleRobin3

Member since
April 2024

294 posts

Posted Mon October 21, 2024 12:52pmReport post

Ugh, this is so depressing. X

Marvel

Member since
October 2024

28 posts

Posted Mon October 21, 2024 8:07pmReport post

With Facebook, there's a number of privacy settings.

You can set it so nobody can search for you, or hide your friends list, choose who can message you or not, change your photo album settings etc

Distressed and pregnant

Member since
November 2020

1005 posts

Posted Mon October 21, 2024 10:52pmReport post

Hi,

I didn't delete mine, I took all photos off of my partner at the time of arrest and he's never had Facebook so he wasn't tagged in anything on there xxx

Smile through tears

Member since
September 2021

2558 posts

Posted Tue October 22, 2024 8:51pmReport post

Asap - I never rejoined!