How could he do this??
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Hello I'm very new to this and am really struggling.
The man I've known for 7 years is not who I thought he was. We worked together for four years and became very close during that time over the last four years he has been my very best friend and we where together for the last two. There was never anything that made me question his character in all this time.
A few months ago I found a bearly legal Reddit thread on his phone and I spoke to him about it l. He said he knew that was wrong and that he wouldn't do anything like. I asked him out right are you a peodophile?? And he promised me he wasn't. I believed him and took it as that it was a stupid click while looking for smut to read.
He was staying in my house for the last month as a trail living together and it was going really well. I was really excited about our future and all our plans for it. There where never any signs.
Until Friday when I opened his laptop and saw he has left open his downloaded file page. There were locked icons that where odd and some video icons. I found three videos that where unlocked. I saw what was on them. - I now know form Google the videos I saw are category B.
I spoke rang him and when asked how they got on there "I think you know" is all he could say and then him pleading "please this isn't me" but it is him he did it.
I reported him myself and now I can barely function. I can't have him in my life anymore beyond this but all I want is my best friend back and I never can because of this.
How do I get these images out of my head?? How bad where the locked ones?? How could he do this and I never knew?? How do I get past this?? Please help me.
The man I've known for 7 years is not who I thought he was. We worked together for four years and became very close during that time over the last four years he has been my very best friend and we where together for the last two. There was never anything that made me question his character in all this time.
A few months ago I found a bearly legal Reddit thread on his phone and I spoke to him about it l. He said he knew that was wrong and that he wouldn't do anything like. I asked him out right are you a peodophile?? And he promised me he wasn't. I believed him and took it as that it was a stupid click while looking for smut to read.
He was staying in my house for the last month as a trail living together and it was going really well. I was really excited about our future and all our plans for it. There where never any signs.
Until Friday when I opened his laptop and saw he has left open his downloaded file page. There were locked icons that where odd and some video icons. I found three videos that where unlocked. I saw what was on them. - I now know form Google the videos I saw are category B.
I spoke rang him and when asked how they got on there "I think you know" is all he could say and then him pleading "please this isn't me" but it is him he did it.
I reported him myself and now I can barely function. I can't have him in my life anymore beyond this but all I want is my best friend back and I never can because of this.
How do I get these images out of my head?? How bad where the locked ones?? How could he do this and I never knew?? How do I get past this?? Please help me.
Oh sweetheart. I feel you. But I have been with this *person* for nearly 17 years.
My whole life is a lie.
He is out tonight doing karaoke, a thing that we have enjoyed together countless times. I cannot be seen with him. He messaged me today saying that he had a little cry today. For the first time. At the absolute shit show our lives have become.
If you can imagine the rage I feel?
My whole life is a lie.
He is out tonight doing karaoke, a thing that we have enjoyed together countless times. I cannot be seen with him. He messaged me today saying that he had a little cry today. For the first time. At the absolute shit show our lives have become.
If you can imagine the rage I feel?