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Sentencing at crown court today

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Dawn19

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June 2023

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Posted Fri October 25, 2024 4:38pmReport post

Hi, my OH had his sentencing today. He was given 9 months sentence suspended for 2 years, 35 hours of a rehabilitation activity requirement (RAR), 5 years SOR and 5 years SHPO.

We got the impression that the judge wanted to give my OH a custodial sentence but probation recommended not to, as the judge made a point of saying that my OH is attracted to children and was not happy because he didn't admit to it to probation. He wasn't going to admit to something that isn't true and lie in court. The judge also wanted to give him unpaid work and was disappointed that he couldn't because of my OH's medical condition. My OH said he would be able to do light unpaid work but probation said there wouldn't be anything available.

His solicitor never showed up which we aren't surprised about as we haven't heard from them since the hearing in July.

Edited Fri October 25, 2024 4:39pm

Upset mum

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Posted Fri October 25, 2024 4:53pmReport post

You have both been in my thoughts today xx

Take time for yourselves, breathe and know we are there for you xx

Distressed and pregnant

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Posted Fri October 25, 2024 5:12pmReport post

Take some time to process and be kind to yourselves over the next few days. I'm annoyed on your behalf at the judge's comment, they are not psychologists and shouldn't make such statements xxx

K4

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October 2022

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Posted Fri October 25, 2024 5:45pmReport post

Thank you for sharing and sorry to read about your solicitor letting you down, and the judge being unnecessarily, erm, judgemental (I couldn't think of a better word).



hope you are able to relax this weekend and catch your breath



xxx

Dawn19

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June 2023

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Posted Fri October 25, 2024 6:06pmReport post

Thank you. It has made it into the media and made my OH sound like such a bad person x

LifeRuined23

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Posted Fri October 25, 2024 9:04pmReport post

I've sent you a message Dawn19 xx

Caggie164

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Posted Sat October 26, 2024 12:10pmReport post

Thank you for sharing. Sorry it was picked up by the media. Hopefully you can move forward now x

Inturmoil1974

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Posted Sat October 26, 2024 8:39pmReport post

Hey Dawn I hope your being kind to yourself today x

NightmareScenario

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Posted Mon October 28, 2024 11:37amReport post

@Dawn19,



Are you sure it is 5 years on the SOR? They only give that if the sentance was a community order. If the sentance was 0-6 months, it's 7 years and 6-30 months it's 10 years.

SHPO's have a minimum of 5 years but may not be for the length of the SOR, but usually is.

scaredandconfused

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June 2021

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Posted Tue October 29, 2024 3:19pmReport post

My oh had 15 months suspended for 2 years and he got 5 years sor/shpo

EllBee

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Posted Tue October 29, 2024 3:43pmReport post

How are you getting on Dawn? Any backlash from the media? I hope not. Hope you are doing ok

Dawn19

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June 2023

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Posted Tue October 29, 2024 4:18pmReport post

@Nightmare

Yes, was definitely 5 years on the SOR. The judge queried whether it would be 5 years or 10 years, and decided on 5. I don't think he knew what he was doing.

@Ellbee

I'm doing okay. No backlash from the media yet. Was reported in the city paper, can't see anything in the local town paper.

We have received a fine in the post today, to be paid within the month, which was not mentioned at court. My OH also received an email from his 'solicitor' stating his sentence which also doesn't mention a fine. The solicitor also sent a survey. I've told him to fill it in but he says he doesn't want to.