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Living in limbo is difficult. He's had the finger of suspicion pointed, and there's no innocent until proven guilty anymore.

Intelligence said 1 image, but OH has no porn/drug/alcohol addiction, no mental disability, not searched for, chatted, asked for or downloaded any images. No idea how or where this image has come from to be there.

It feels shameful to be accused of this. He's carrying on the best he can (thankfully we're all adults, just a handful of young grandchildren that don't live close), but I'm finding it stressful, due to an ongoing traumatic event. Just didn't need this extra burden to carry too.

Another week has passed.

I've had a really busy week at work with one colleague off sick and the other on leave so I'm definitely ready for the weekend.

My weekend will be spent with my family and grandchildren so I'm sure we'll be out and about having some fun and hopefully attending a firework display.

I'm feeling pleased with myself this evening. I've just managed to book a great deal of lunch and 2 spa treatments in a hotel by the sea for my friend and I in December for less than £35 each. I love a bargain.

Smile I hope you have a great visit with HC

Marvel, I feel for you as I know how hard living in limbo land is. I'm sending you strength and love.

Good Saturday morning ladies. Glad we all survived Halloween knocks and move on towards Bonfire night!

felt sorry for newer ladies this week - those in shock and turmoil with discoveries of a loved one's hidden secret life. My heart reaches out to them - I've been through stuff but those early months were horrendous trauma, it's pure physical and mental pain. Hug sent.

Reached another massive family milestone which I felt thrilled about at first. Couldn't help it being tinged with the feelings of sadness what my son had done to us all to put us through this long tedious journey of rebuilding our trusts..... how wonderful it WAS to float freely in and out with family. How now even after years passed we remain cautious and on edge, and we were innocent in all this.

in the end I just tried not to overthink, be thankful of another baby step forward and pull up those big girl knick's.........

Apart from this deep staff, all ok, busy week. Work very lively as they approach the Christmas rush. air of anticipation around. Boy ok etc.

So love waved round to all - think we're due a bit of winter sunshine over the weekend, enjoy - stretch out and look at those beautiful autumn colours.

Good morning ladies,

I read from new users, new knocks, new devastations quite a bit lately which upsets me as I know how hard it is in the early days, it's hard now too, but different.

Professionals' involvement, assessments, family law, this forum and being a non offending partner is part of my identity now. I don't know when the dynamics shifted but I stopped overthinking and grieving for the life I had and one I tought I was going to have and accepted what I've got now. I'm happier for it.

We've had a good week, opened the door to trick and treaters and handed out chocolates, in return were amused by imaginative costumes. The fur baby was dressed as a spider and kept running out the door but failed to scare a single soul with her cuteness.

Not looking forward to bonfire night because of the dog.

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We had a beautiful Halloween and the kids really enjoyed collecting sweets from houses and later on running to our door when trick or treaters arrived.

Yesterday I bought my little girl boots and today we all went to the park together xx

I hope everyone enjoys their Sunday evening as best as they can xx lots of love