Social services gone back on their word.
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Absolute rubbish day for us,
SS have just back tracked and won’t do the risk assessments now after having a meeting to decide that this was the next steps, said that regardless of the outcome of that they’d still deem it unsafe for me to supervise the contact, all because I love and trust my husband.
Honestly it’s bonkers..
My only assumption here is that SS have seen what the price of the quote is and thought no way, and come up with some excuse not to go ahead.
At no point was it discussed that the highest manager would reject us having the assessments, as the meeting that decided this was next steps was with managers in the first place.
risk assessments were going to take place to see if I was suitable to supervise contact with my husband and my children. And to see if he could eventually move home.
Please read my other post for full story, but In a nutshell we've now been on CPP plan for over 3 years when my kids were born! It's been 4yrs since my OH was arrested. He's been charged for 'attempting to make indecent images' a charge that nobody seems to have heard of and court has been delayed multiple times, now set for NOV 2025!
any advice of what to try next is greatly appreciated, I'm at wits end with this nightmare.
SS have just back tracked and won’t do the risk assessments now after having a meeting to decide that this was the next steps, said that regardless of the outcome of that they’d still deem it unsafe for me to supervise the contact, all because I love and trust my husband.
Honestly it’s bonkers..
My only assumption here is that SS have seen what the price of the quote is and thought no way, and come up with some excuse not to go ahead.
At no point was it discussed that the highest manager would reject us having the assessments, as the meeting that decided this was next steps was with managers in the first place.
risk assessments were going to take place to see if I was suitable to supervise contact with my husband and my children. And to see if he could eventually move home.
Please read my other post for full story, but In a nutshell we've now been on CPP plan for over 3 years when my kids were born! It's been 4yrs since my OH was arrested. He's been charged for 'attempting to make indecent images' a charge that nobody seems to have heard of and court has been delayed multiple times, now set for NOV 2025!
any advice of what to try next is greatly appreciated, I'm at wits end with this nightmare.
Sadly I don't have any advice to give you because social services did the same thing with my son. I didn't want to read and just scroll on because I really do feel for you and know how hard and frustrating the situation is.
That's absolutely rediculous! Yet it's shocking that I'm not surpirsed either.
I'm in a similar situation but aparently they have given the go ahead for assessments for both me and my OH due next week but I will be furious if they're cancelled last second which is also pretty common in my experience.
While I don't know if it'll help but I'd honeslty concider legal advice and potientially a solicitor if there is any that would help with SS? Do you have any other professionals that work with you?
I'm in a similar situation but aparently they have given the go ahead for assessments for both me and my OH due next week but I will be furious if they're cancelled last second which is also pretty common in my experience.
While I don't know if it'll help but I'd honeslty concider legal advice and potientially a solicitor if there is any that would help with SS? Do you have any other professionals that work with you?
I'm considering the legal options next, but honestly I just don't know where to begin. I want someone who is guaranteed and experience with this situation as I do feel its a bit complex.
thank you for your reply, I hope your assessments go to plan and you get the outcome you need.
thank you for your reply, I hope your assessments go to plan and you get the outcome you need.