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I feel like i spend most of my days writing on this forum these days I just find it super helpful talking to others who have been through similar situations.
At the moment my partner is having no contact with my oldest children and only supervised contact by my mum with our daughter, I spoke to my social worker on Monday and she said they was hopeful to close the case by this friday, that he was not a risk to our daughter only to the older two so I could supervise contact with our daughter but until he got a new risk assessment from his probation worker he still wouldn't be allowed contact with my older children which is fine.
Anyway. Stupidly I got my hopes up and we made plans this weekend to take our daughter to see his parents who are missing her like crazy but they live almost 2 hours away and social services are saying noone else could supervise, my partner had to move in with them so they haven't been able to see our daughter. Anyway we stupidly made plans as I Said to go see them this weekend. Social worker then phoned today and said they wouldn't be closing the case as we originally thought and they're going to carry out a protective parenting assessment. She said she would be out Tuesday to go over her plan and things with me.
My question is, if I was to still as planned take my daughter to her grandparents house with her dad being there what would happen? Would it be worth ringing and asking if I can or would this just piss them off? Is it not worth the risk? I'm struggling. My partner is struggling and my daughter is too missing her dad. I just need advice
At the moment my partner is having no contact with my oldest children and only supervised contact by my mum with our daughter, I spoke to my social worker on Monday and she said they was hopeful to close the case by this friday, that he was not a risk to our daughter only to the older two so I could supervise contact with our daughter but until he got a new risk assessment from his probation worker he still wouldn't be allowed contact with my older children which is fine.
Anyway. Stupidly I got my hopes up and we made plans this weekend to take our daughter to see his parents who are missing her like crazy but they live almost 2 hours away and social services are saying noone else could supervise, my partner had to move in with them so they haven't been able to see our daughter. Anyway we stupidly made plans as I Said to go see them this weekend. Social worker then phoned today and said they wouldn't be closing the case as we originally thought and they're going to carry out a protective parenting assessment. She said she would be out Tuesday to go over her plan and things with me.
My question is, if I was to still as planned take my daughter to her grandparents house with her dad being there what would happen? Would it be worth ringing and asking if I can or would this just piss them off? Is it not worth the risk? I'm struggling. My partner is struggling and my daughter is too missing her dad. I just need advice
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Thank you for posting on the Family and Friends forum, we understand that it is not easy to post on a forum about these difficult situations. I can see that you have not yet had a reply on your post, hopefully someone else in a similar situation can reply soon with some support.
If you haven't already done so, I would also encourage you to contact our Stop it Now helpline. The helpline is anonymous, confidential and free, on 0808 1000 900. One of our trained advisors will then be able to explore your situation in detail and provide some support and do their best to answer your questions. Our trained advisors deal with similar concerns to yours every day and will be able to talk these through with you and offer you the best advice we can.
I hope this has been helpful.
Take care,
The Forum Team