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Stan cat

Member since
October 2024

36 posts

Posted Sat November 30, 2024 6:55amReport post

so I went for an interview yesterday and was offered the job, but I'm not sure if it's right for me for starters it would mean I'd have to take a pay cut.I'm still not sure what to do whether I should be looking for a new job or not. what I'm scared of really is the fact that my son and his father know where I work and my son said father was bitching about me and my OH and what I'm scared of I think is when this comes out is whether they will phone my work again and tell them what's been going on up to now I managed to keep it under wraps and I'm really scared what will happen when they find out hence why I'm looking for another job so they don't know where I work.

K4

Member since
October 2022

617 posts

Posted Sat November 30, 2024 8:07amReport post

I don't know much about your situation, but it is highly unlikely that you would lose your job if you'd done nothing wrong.



If your OH is convicted, it possibly won't even show up on a DBS check.



i would suggest joining a trade union and they will be able to advise on how to manage this



x

Stan cat

Member since
October 2024

36 posts

Posted Sat November 30, 2024 9:37pmReport post

Thank you for replying K4 I am in a union and I have lost jobs because of him in the past and I'm so scared of My boss finding out and the shame of them knowing what he's done and me having to explain it to them !!!