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Upset mum

Member since
June 2020

2446 posts

Posted Sun December 22, 2024 6:02pmReport post

Evening lovlies x

Yesterday's visit as lovely as it was it left me a bit deflated x

Dont get me wrong HC was good as always but he was not in the same mindset as he usually is

My normal posts about him are so good he is doing so well with his degree, his wellbeing

Yet it left me feeling really sad

He ate well

4 crumpets

4 slices of toast

Ham sandwich

Chocolate cake

2 chocolate pastry

So much chocolate bars

Tub of icecream

As a mum I am so incredibly proud of how far he has come, yet inside I feel so helpless at this time of year, we are used to our new normal, yet when the visit was over we had lots of hugs, yet on my drive home I just felt so sad and emotional, emotions eh xx

hpl111

Member since
November 2022

408 posts

Posted Sun December 22, 2024 6:35pmReport post

Time flies and you will see him on the outside again soon.

Well done him for using this time to better himself and getting a degree. You must be so proud of him xx

PrairieMom

Member since
May 2024

88 posts

Posted Sun December 22, 2024 7:49pmReport post

Upset,

Thanks for sharing the details of your visit and your feelings of sadness. You are not alone. Some days will always be harder than others.

Smile through tears

Member since
September 2021

2626 posts

Posted Sun December 22, 2024 11:53pmReport post

Bless you, no matter how hard we try to keep smiling the pain and sadness rears its ugly head especially at this time of year.......

Time does indeed race by and our boys will be free one day - to hopefully rebuild their life in some way, shape or form...... then we can hopefully smile a bit more.

Love you lots Upset......... chin up x