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11 days of Hell so far

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Braveface

Member since
December 2019

2 posts

Posted Tue December 10, 2019 9:15pmReport post

Got the knock 11 days ago.. Husband was Arrested 1 image a Cat A hes on bail no unsupervised Acess to our 12 year old or Allowed to Sleep overnight past 10pm ive not been able to work sleep or ffunction. Husband Attmitted to chatting online but dont know where this image has come from police informed me he Had a Polygragh test and they have no Safequarding issues and the Results of that looked good.. now its just the dreaded wait for verdict to see if he gets a Charge ? SS have been ok just Told me Follow the bail condtions but for now husband is staying with family i so scared and worried and just need to tallk. Thankyou

Noa

Member since
December 2019

15 posts

Posted Tue December 10, 2019 10:12pmReport post

HI Braveface, I'm on day one of this nightmare, just wanted to say Hi and you're not on your own.

Braveface

Member since
December 2019

2 posts

Posted Tue December 10, 2019 10:14pmReport post

Iam numb at the moment but hi too thanks for replying

Tabs

Member since
November 2019

501 posts

Posted Tue December 10, 2019 10:35pmReport post

Hi Braveface, so sorry that you have had to join us. It's a strange new world. I've learned more than I want to about this crime and the impact on all the friends and family. The waiting is awful, but I am am gaining some sort of inner strength. Thinking of you, find time for you, and find support if you can.X

Tutleymutley

Member since
November 2019

104 posts

Posted Wed December 11, 2019 2:00pmReport post

(I love that you are discovering your strength - your core - TAbs - there are silver linings to be found in the dark clouds are there not?).

to our original poster - I'm not far in front of you and send love and hugs to you x

mjl73

Member since
August 2019

240 posts

Posted Wed December 11, 2019 9:31pmReport post

Hi ladies, sorry that you've ended up in this club that none of us ever imagined we'd be in. I'm sure it feels like it right now but you aren't alone, keep coming back to the forum as there's plenty of people here who understand what you are going through. There's also a few of us on mumsnet, see the 'support' thread if you'd rather post somewhere less public.