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2 years after the knock, 6 months after sentencing and everything is crashing around me. After sentencing my partner come home and everything was wonderful. He stupidly watched porn, his visor worker see and then Social services got back involved. After previously closing the case they have now put the children on a CPP. He is only allowed supervised access with our daughter which was only being done through my mum. Our conference was awful and I was made to feel absolutely horrendous and the things they were saying to me was just ridiculous. My parents had always been aware but I hadn't told my brothers and because of social services pushing for people to know I made the decision to tell my brothers and they have not taken it well at all, infact they told me I'm just as bad as him and they think SS should take my children and I wished me dead. Said if I stick by him they're never going to talk to me again. Which honestly doesn't bother me all that much. My family can be very toxic and they have always seen me as the 'problem' since then they have told my parents if they continue to supervise between my partner and our daughter they'll no longer be seeing their children (my partner is never there when they are) and so my mum has now said she is no longer willing to supervise. Me and my partner have spoken about taking a break so we can both figure our shit out and then resume our relationship in a few months when we have done our courses and things and hope that social services may give us a little chance to breath but I'm just not sure If that's the right option. I just don't know what to do or where to go from here. It was all supposed to be done