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Lostandalone

Member since
September 2024

37 posts

Posted Fri January 17, 2025 11:16pmReport post

Wasted - there's no other word for it- a good few hours reading court articles about these types of crimes and sentencing.
It's a completely unhelpful yet I can't help it, without a magic crystal ball to tell me the future I find that scouring articles is the closest I can get.



But as I've read on here so often there seems to be no rhyme or reason to how they chose to sentence.



I hate not knowing what's going to happen. Just an overthinking sort of night.

mum1982H

Member since
September 2022

27 posts

Posted Sat January 18, 2025 1:34amReport post

I'm a bit like that, I need a plan, I need to know what the outcome might be. I really don't cope being out of control.

I was shocked to see its been 4 weeks already since the knock. 4 weeks of me googling, overthinking, attempting some kind of planning.

my oh hasn't been currently charged, been warned of up to a year's wait on forensics. His current bale doesn't even mention supervised contact just none at all with u18's. I'm due to give birth in the next 3 weeks, with those bail conditions there's really nothing I can plan other than to exclude him.

I quite often explain to him about the cases I read about, he insists there is no iioc on any of his devices. He does get a little annoyed when I explain that there could be without his knowledge if he's been sent links or downloaded pornography. When I tell him how there could be NFA and its likely ss would not just disappear because the suspicion was there for a reason(whatever that may be)

I'm the type to plan for worst case scenario.

I honestly never thought someone else's actions could do such damage to my life.