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Custodial on first offence?

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T2021

Member since
December 2020

163 posts

My person is being sentenced very soon.
It is a communication offence with decoy.
I know it all depends on the judge on the day. But I really need to know peoples sentence for this on first offence. Please x

Posted Mon February 3, 2025 8:08pmReport post

Ocean

Member since
September 2023

925 posts

My person received 3 charges related to communication (not a decoy) and received a 2 year suspended sentence, 300 hours community service, the Horizon course, a fine, 10 year SHPO, 10 years SOR.

Posted Mon February 3, 2025 8:48pmReport post

Ginluver

Member since
April 2023

74 posts

Hi sorry that you find yourself in this situation my ex partner got a custodial for a communication offence it was unexpected as first offence think it all depends on the judge on the day as even the officer in charge was shocked by the outcome. I would just say try to just hope for the best but be prepared for custodial incase that happens.

Posted Tue February 4, 2025 2:24pmReport post

LittleRobin3

Member since
April 2024

657 posts

My ex was sent to prison for 3 years, first offence of IIOC, making and sharing.

Posted Tue February 4, 2025 3:26pm
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Haze23

Member since
December 2023

50 posts

1 charge for attempted communication.
he had:
16 weeks suspended for 2 years

5 yrs SHPO

7 yrs notification

12 months mental health

40 RAR days

Posted Tue February 4, 2025 3:26pmReport post

26a20

Member since
December 2024

109 posts

My partner got 15 months in prison for causing or inciting sexual activity and sexual communication with a child. 10 years on register. He didn't have a SOPO (old version of a SHPO) put in place.

Posted Tue February 4, 2025 6:34pmReport post

T2021

Member since
December 2020

163 posts

Thank you all for replying x it's wild how much it varies

Posted Tue February 4, 2025 6:53pmReport post

Poppop

Member since
September 2023

76 posts

My son

He got 2 yrs suspended sentence

100 hrs community

10 yrs sore and 10 yrs shipo

2 x attempted communication with decoys,sent photo of privates and asked for pictures

Posted Tue February 4, 2025 7:34pmReport post

Wanderer41

Member since
January 2025

31 posts

Gosh it really varies.

My son is on bail at the moment, first offence and has been honest. He is under "reasonable suspicion of harrassment" because he asked for photos on two occasions. I don't think he sent any over.

A nightmare, not sure what his final charges will be at all.

Could this be similar to some of you? Xx

Posted Wed February 5, 2025 12:53pmReport post

T2021

Member since
December 2020

163 posts

Not heard of that charge before sorry x

Posted Thu February 6, 2025 8:37pmReport post

Quick exit